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I'm going through the same thing. Its been about 4 months for me. And I've only seen her twice. And I think you gotta cut the ties. If you see her it brings back the feelings. Both times I saw my ex I wanted her back and it set me back a couple weeks. Unfortuanltly I have to almost ask my friends if there gonna be hanging with her and if they are I'll make sure I'm not around for the most part. And while it does suck, if your in college like me it shouldn't be to hard to find some new people to hang with as I've been doing so far. Not to say you should ditch your old friends but in case there with her you got some other people to keep ya busy.

Hey . I feel what your going through man. And i'm sorta in the state your are cept a little farther along. And this was the 2nd girl I"ve falling in "love" with. And both times the relationship ended I felt the same way. The first girl I feel in love with was in high school. We went out for about a year and while are relationship wasn't that great as soon as we broke up I wanted her back. I wrote her emails and such but she had moved on. It took me almost a year to get over her. I even ended up hooking up with her on prom night which was about a year after we dated (and it sucked) and so eventually she left my mind and I realized we weren't that great together and there are tons of other girls out there. My second love which I broke up with about 4 months ago is still killing me. We were good friends for our first year in college and started dating are second year. We went out for about 8 months. And despite the fact that I know I will get over her it still hurts me. And like you I've asked for her to come back. But obviosly she has moved on. Anyways my point is it will get better AND that you DEFINENTLY will fall in love again. IN FACT the next time you fall in love it will be five times better then this time. So don't be afraid to cry and let it out. But try to enjoy life as well. And ya if you like working out I recommend it. It gets out mad stress.