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  1. Hi, Well, I am sorry to hear that you saw her. Yes, I do talk to the ex occasionally. She is always the one to initiate contact. In fact she showed up at my office on my birthday. It was hard to see her. She doesnt look to well. I do miss her but I know there isnt anything I can do about the situation. I am sure she will be crashing soon. Christmas always seems to bring out strange behaviour and depression for her, so I am sure it will be interesting. Do you still want to be with this your ex? Or are you just grieving and moving on? I know that either way is hard. Let me know how you are- Rexy
  2. Hi- you sound like a very nice guy. I can tell you -yes, I think she is interested in you. When woman who are shy look and then look away, its because of fear. The fact that you are a year older is also cool to her. I would suggest that you talk to her or write her a short note asking her to meet you after school. I know you must think this sounds a little hookey, but trust me- the intrigue will get her. Go somewhere that you are comfortable - I am not sure what your interests are but maybe some place that has other people around so you are both more comfortable. By the way, you should follow your gut instinct - your intuition is always going to tell you the answers to your questions- so watch and see how your body feels- you will be surprised at how much you already know! Hope this helps and good luck!
  3. Hi, I just read your story and almost thought I was reading about part of my own life. First of all, it is imperative that this woman take her medication and not mix it with any other substances as this interfers with its effectiveness. I was just recently in a long term relationship with a woman that has a combination of Bi-polar and alcoholism- what fun! Not really! Anyway, she would drink excessively and would take her medication but the alcohol would cancel it out. I feel for you, as I also went through the cycles with her. One day everything would be perfect and I would feel so connected to her and the next she would be carrying on like she was insane- really! We finally parted ways this summer after she started having an affair- she still contacts me and tells me she loves me "and I still deeply love her" but has not been willing to work on "our" relationship- its sad as I know she doesnt want to lose me from her life but at the same time this situation isnt fullfilling my needs- as I am sure you can relate. Anyway, if there is any hope, she must do the medication as well as counseling. I would also recommend you go to counseling together- I am sure it would help. This disease tends to get worse with age, so if you can, try to get a grip on it early. Hope this helps !
  4. Hi Lucy, You must know that life will get better and you can make it better. When I was your age I went through something very similiar -and here I am almost 20 years later! I can only imagine the distress that you are going through, so please seek out someone that you can talk with. Even if its a highschool counselor from your past or a Lesbian Resource Center in your city- there are people who will help you and do care that you stay on this earth. Killing yourself is not the answer, but I think you already know that. You just want everything to feel better- and it will-but you must take a small step towards that making that happen as well. I hope you do seek someone to talk to- let me know how you are doing. - Rexy
  5. Hi Lucy, You must know that life will get better and you can make it better. When I was your age I went through something very similiar -and here I am almost 20 years later! I can only imagine the distress that you are going through, so please seek out someone that you can talk with. Even if its a highschool counselor from your past or a Lesbian Resource Center in your city- there are people who will help you and do care that you stay on this earth. Killing yourself is not the answer, but I think you already know that. You just want everything to feel better- and it will-but you must take a small step towards that making that happen as well. I hope you do seek someone to talk to- let me know how you are doing. - Rexy
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