froggprincess

alright well first have you tried talking to her about it yet? how did it go? if she understands then thats great cuz then u can work it out together. Maybe your girlfriend will help you with it. Does she know your friend? If she cant help then u should try to figure out a way to get her back to being close with u.. but first u need to figure out the problem. so i think the best thing to do first is to see if shes willing to be close with u again.... i hopeim helping you. If im not, im sorry

well do you ever think your feelings will change abiut this girl? do u think u will always want to be her firend? if so then you should just try to talk to her about it at least, just ask why u havent been haning out lately and see if she still wants to be good friends with you. Not many people wanna lose a friendship like that, good luck

Im having a problem with my boyfriend.. i met him by my cousin(who is a girl) and they werre best fiends. we started going out and everytng wasok until her boyfriend started tothink that he liked her.. and i noticed it befofe but didnt eanna say anyting to anyone because i didnt want it to be real so i tried to convinve myself i was the only person that realiuzed it and hoped i was wrong. He is the first person i really care about and i love him with all my heart. Recently i have began to think even more that he lieks her buti didnt know what to do anout it. Now she is pushing him away and hes tryingto stop it. he cares alot for her, sometimes i think even more than he cares for me. I dont know what to do anymore. Should i deal with them being best fiends and pissibly being second best tohim? or is this relationship evenm worth it if i think he has feelings for someone else. I dont know what i will do without himbut i dont want to hold him back from expressing his feelings toweards her. i just dont know what to do anymore. I dont undertand it. And i feel bad about myself because he makes me feellike shes better than me or i have to be morelike her for the same amount of care,. can someone please help me and try to understand this with me? thank you

hey cky.... ok im not really sure whats going on but maybe she is tyring to be unclose to u because maybe she thinks u like her and she doesnt want her boyfriend to think your trying to get with her or somehting..most boyfirends dont like their girlfriends to have a best friend thats a guy. yeah i can deff tell that u ahve a lot of feelings for her.. from the way i hear it it kinda of seems like u actually like her.. even though you sed u dont.. are u fooling yourself? dont try to hide our real feelings.Maybe you cant let her go becvause u feel somehting more for her. And ebven thoughyou think this it total bull of what im saying now.. really stop to think what your feeling. and maybe u like someone else i duno but dont just try to cover what you might feel because in the end it will show anyways. I hope i'm helping you.. i really do. Because i was kind of in that situatuion before.. my x-boyfirned and my best friend (which was a guy) didnt get along and ended up getting into this hige fist fight.. and i wasnt about to lose my firned... and we ended up going out and it was a really good thing for me. So be careful about your feelings and dont try to hide them, once u figure that out then u can decide what to do with this girl, but first u have got to talk to her abvout this, if she is your best firned then you should be able to talk to each other about anything. good luck and keep me up to date.

Sounds like you really care about this girl. Do you think you might actually like her? or are u sure that u just like her as a friend? it was just a thought, but i think what you should do is maybe do somehting she really likes to do together... like if she lieks a sport invite her to go play it sometime or something and if she keeps making jacked up excuses.. then maybe she really doesnt wanna be ur friend anymore... but hopefully... she will realize wut a great friend u are. Tell me how things work out