rajdeep

hi guys and gals, BELATED HAPPY VALENTINES DAY 2U ALL. there's girl whom i love for over 1yr. but she's not responding me at all. 4get phone calls not even mails....i've asked her out for few times but her response was negetive. i've been the only person who makes the phone calls. she interacts with me very well on the phone. i've not yet proposed her, as bcos i want make my friendship base strong. but the twist of the tale is that there r other gals who is ready 2 give me wat i want frm a partner. plz don't misunderstand me frnds.........i love that girl only.....but i'm got getting anything back. i'm puzzled, so wat will i or can i do now. plz help pals. bye rajdeep.

hi there, 1stly HAPPY NEW YEAR 2ALL. there is a girl and i love her. we r friends for months. i have'nt proposed her yet as bcos i want make my friendship base "a solid 1". but she knows that i love her......i'm sure....she even tries various methods to make me speak out about my feelings on her.. i call her regularly, whenever I call her it seems she's very much interested in interacting with me. ...she never called me and we've never been on a date but i'm not worried abt that. the "way and what" she talks or interacts with me during the conversations over the phone states that she's interested in me or likes me....but....... this new yr. i told her that i'm sending her a card by post. then she said "rajdeep its ok that we talk on phone but why send cards at home? this is our last yr of graduaton and we don't where we'll b after that. i've seen poeple come & go so i've decided that no more new friends." i said don't generalise me......she replied "why, ur a friend as any other" then i asked, have i pressurised u once for calling me & why r thinking so much abt the future. then to my surprise she said "ur so casual u'll date for 6months and then forget everything" (why does she say that). though i remimded her what she's talking abt. she said sorry and said that we'll b all busy with our careers then why all this. i've sent her my card and have'nt talked with her since. let her think abt me. b sure of that card contents, its just a friend wishing another. whats going on her mind? is she feeling the love for me but stoping herself from committing? i'm really puzzled. please help buddies. well i hope i've cleared myself.ok bye , rajdeep

hi there, few months back i met a girl, with whom I think i'm in love. but there is a complication...and it would be really nice if I get advice. so let me tell the matter in details. I met this girl on february this year. though we r batchmates she reads in my friend's college. I took her phone number and from then on its only me who does all the phone calls. she does'nt have my number, nor did I gave her nor did she ever asked for it. I call her regularly. whenever I call her it seems she's very much interested in interacting with me. after about 4months I asked her for a 1:1 date, she rejected. she said quote" we know there is nothing in between us so if somebody see us together". i did'nt make a comment on this reply. few days back I invited her on my birthday but she made and excuse and did'nt hung-up. she wished me when only I called her...there I told her quote " i would have been much happier if u called and wished me" then she told " time has'nt come to call you". during these months i've just seen her only 4/5 times only when there is a friendly gathering. i do not much help from my friends in fixing a meeting with her. in the past(in her school & college) she's been proposed by 6/7 guys and each and everyone got a 'NO'. she tells that she's afriad of commitment & problems in a relationship, yet she dreams about having a love-marraige. she knows that i'm in love with her....she even tries various methods to make me speak out about my feelings on her. i have'nt proposed her till. i'm ready to wait but i want her. the "way and what" she talks or interacts with me during the conversations over the phone states that she's interested in me or likes me....i'm damn sure about it. but how'll I will make her fall in love with me. and when will she call me atleast how could i make her call me? what to do next???? i'm really puzzled. please help buddies. i hope i've made myself clear. ok bye, rajdeep