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Hey pple, I am quite happy that some suggestions to my previous posts were quite amazing. No, I'm not asskissing for getting more replies, honest fact that some advice was pretty cool i.e I'm still alive Now, I did my homework, subtly asked this girl whom I really like and get along with as to how serious was her relationship with her current bf who's happy somewhere in Europe. She told me it was " not very serious and just that they enjoyed each other's company sometimes". Now, she also gave me her whole history of her previous bf's, the problems she had with them and even why they did not work out etc. Well, I get along with her and we enjoy each other's company a lot, should I ask her out. ?? We're pretty good as friends and is this why I get to hear about her past relationships? Will I be a shithead who misused his friendship coin to get a date? Is it worth screwing up a good friendship by asking this girl out? Wish to cheer and thanks in advance folks.

Aloha, I have known this girl whom I share an apartment for quite sometime We are of the same frustrated age group, have many many many overlapping interests and hobbies and tastes. Pretty swell you would think. The most refreshing girl I've known in quite a loooooooong time. Yeah, I am totally into her and would beg and crawl for a date with her. Here's a tricky twist : she just mentioned in passing that she has a boyfriend in Italy ( and that cut half my heart away), but it isn't that she seems to be goo-goo and ga-ga over her bf. Now, would it be approrpriate for me to : (a) Ask her how serious she is in her current relationship i.e. whether she wouldn't mind dating me? (b) Just plainly ask her out, braving the consequence of rejection. Added to all these things is the fact that - I share my living space with her and we're just getting along amazingly with each other. And, if I ask her out and she tells me to get lost or something like that, it would be pretty awkward (maybe) for sometime . I just have an amazing rapport with her and would it be worth risking it all by asking her out? I am just confused confused confused confused...

Hi there, I share my living space with a girl who is very cool in my books. We have same likes/dislikes when it comes TV, music or even people haha. Almost have the same hobbies too like biking and swimming/running. I am not sure if this forum is about only Americans, but I ain't one I was wondering how do I go about asking this girl out on a simple date. Coming from a different culture I am a bit paranoid about looking pretty foolish. I think that she is not dating anyone right now as we spend most of Friday/Saturday nights watching some good movies or doing something like that. If anyone could help me make a complete fool of myself, I would welcome the miss-advice