Well, I started nc without telling my ex. Today she emailed me and wanted to tell my about her rough counseling session and that she was thinking about me. Blah...blah...blah. I was polite but short and to the point avoiding all questions she asked me about my life. I decided it was now or never...it was time to cut her loose and take a stand for myself. I basically told her that I had not contacted her out of respect for her decision to move on with her life with someone else. I told her that I did not feel it would be good for me if I had any contact with her from now on. I let her know I am trying to move on with my life and heal. She replied that she would respect that and leave me alone....she had been hopeful that we could be friends....but it was too soon. YA THINK?? Anywho, no contact begins again tomorrow!!!
