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This ain't no depressing post, thanks to the "Bible" I found from this site, I have become stronger, but I'm just a little bit confused, I'm just unsure (not afraid, but unsure) that if I go through with this I might be making one of the worst decisions in my life. Anyways, I have a crush that actually found out about me, and she msged me saying that "I dun like you, I like you as a friend", I know why she did that, because 1) I was rushing this, 2) everyone knew 3) When around her, I'm showing her that I like her 4) I don't talk to her much. A friend of her's told me about her personality and stuff, and I just realised that I could have been her type of guy if I showed it around her. Now that her group of friends "think" that I don't like her anymore, I believe that it is safe to "try again", but I don't know if I should really do it, if I do I'll do it differently, I have this Plan thing which goes somethings like "Make friends with her, earn her trust, make her see my true self, and see what she thinks of me in the end." Which is basically trying to make her like me without saying anything or acting like I like her. So should I should I not go through with it again? Or do you think I'll make it worst? And should I take this approach of "Be very good friends with her to make her see the REAL type of person I am?" And yes I'm still studying "The Bible".

Ok its time for me to try to help someone... Self Control by friend, you need self control. You're mind is playing tricks on you, whenever you get thoughts in your mind about this "girl next door", it is you're conscience trying to mess with you, you must somehow block her out of your mind, try to tell your conscience to get lost, and think about your gf more. If you cry about things like this, then you ain't no man, woman want a man, a man is someone who have more things to do then worry about woman. So if you can't tell your conscience to get lost, then try occupying yourself with a lot of activities to get your mind of the woman. Your mind can be your greatest weapon or your weak spot. It's up to you to decide what you want your mind to be, once you can take control of your own conscience, you can do whatever the hell you want... I hope this helps.

I have just realised that things happen when you least expected, I used to keep my hopes up and things just don't happen when I dothat. I also used to have this crush, I made so many mistakes with this one, I told everyone I liked her, I didn't do much around her, and in the end she gave me a message saying "I don't like you, I only like you as a friend", so I left it as that and moved on, but I can't really move on until I get some questions answered so I can start anew (not change myself entirely, but learn from some of my mistakes). 1) Someone told me that if you show people that you don't like them, they'll end up liking you or something? I mean, for example, show your crush that you don't like them when your around them. I don't really get this concept and I want to know what it really means. 2) What do I do so I can get accepted in a group? I sometimes feel I'm an outsider of my own group of friends, maybe because I've become paranoid and distant myself from them or something. I'm not really that popular, and it seems that everyone ignores or forgets about me. 3) How serious are people these days? I always get scared that I offend people or bother people and then I start to act weird, now some people think I'm a freak or something. 4) Not good to be obsessed or show your obsessed these days eh? Yes Or No?