My husband and I have been married for 10 years, we have 4 kids. I married my husband because I wanted to get married and thought the love would "just happen". Well it hasn't and I think he feels the same way. When my husband and I are "alone" without kids around it is is so arkward, we are just like friends and not married people. There is no physical touch, etc., except for the occasional sex. I have not heard the words "I love you" in 10 years on our wedding day. He never initiates a conversation with me except to tell me something factual, like "I have an appointment, or something about the kids" never asks me about myself. I don't know what to do. I can't imagine living the rest of my life like this. I want to know love and be in love and have someone love me. The only happiness I have and love is from my little children. Has anyone "been there" words of advice - I feel I am all alone and I have abolutely no body to share this with. I am living a lie.
Sassy
