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I would stop talking to her immediately. I know this can be difficult if you have a crush on her, but its only going to make you feel worse. Try not to talk to her for a few days, and see if she approaches you. Respect yourself, you dont need friends, or even a girlfriend like that.

From my studies on creatine there have been no negative side effects, and none that affect the liver. Personally I never really noticed any size or strength gains while taking it, although I did seem to have more energy and a faster recovery time. If you wanna get big, start with the basics. 1. Multivitamin 2. Weight gain powder with lots of protein 3. Creatine 4. Lots of sleep Keep a healthy diet, high protein low carbs. Avoid sugars and junk food. The most important part of any training regiment is diet and dedication to your diet. Dont read too much into the phony side effects of everything. I've taken plenty of different supplements, and even some prohormones, still have yet to see a side effect. Keep it simple and you'll be fine. There is no miracle product out there, just remember that.

The first month I was with her, her ex boyfriend of 2 years was harassing her. They had broken up 7 months before we got together, but the relationship was new, so I didn't get involved at first. After a while, it started pissing me off and I confronted him and he stopped for a while, but then every now and again he would do something. I avoided it. She talks to him now, they are good friends. She refuses to speak to me. While we were together, he best friend went behind her back and tried to have me cheat on her with her. I obviously didn't do anything, but I told my gf about it and they stopped talking. The day after she broke up with me, she began talking to her friend again. So now she hates me, refuses to talk to me, but talks to the two people who tried to ruin our relationship. I am filled by so much anger that sometimes I find it uncontrollable. I know I shouldn't care about her anymore, she's hurt me so much. I cant help it though. I want to hate her, but I cant. I dont know what to do with myself. I dont know how to go on, being betrayed like this. I am now the bad guy, and I dont know what I did. These people destroyed my life.

Well she broke my heart a little over 5 weeks ago. We had some problems and she just left and never came back. She didn't want to talk to me, or see me or anything. 5 weeks later it seems her life's moving on, and I'm stuck in the same place. I do suffer from depression, which makes it just a little harder for me, but I still think about her all the time. Dream about her every night. I feel her hatred towards me, and it crushes me. I dont think she's found anyone knew, but I have my feelings. I know I can't get her back, but at least if we were on good terms it would be easier. She changed her phone number and shut me out of her life. How can I move on when I have no desire to find someone else?

Perhaps I shouldn't be giving advice, since my girlfriend broke up with me and hated me the next day, but all I can say is that your story is confusing. Basically if you want to be with her, you have to tell her that. Tell her that you love her, but you can't wait for her forever. Since she has no reason to really leave you, the problem is hers and she needs to deal with it. You can wait around and see if she comes back, or you can move on. She may never come back to you though. You have to get together and have a serious talk.

Well then your best bet is to tell her how you feel about her, and let her know that you want to be more than friends. I can tell you that it will be difficult for you to stay friends with her, and not have a relationship more than that. If she doesn't want to get with you, then you might as well end the friendship, because it will be too much pain for you, and you will waste a lot of time pursuing something that may never happen.

I've been there before, and quite frankly I can tell you that she does have feelings for you. Honestly, you must be doing something wrong, but you obviously dont know what it is. Try to take her out on a date for dinner, or to the movies or something, and see how it works when its just the two of you together, in a "date" setting. Try not to be too much of a friend, because that can screw you in the long run. She may not see you as boyfriend material. I dont know, stick with it but try not to drive yourself nuts.

I never blamed her for the break-up, but she never really gave me a reason. I went a long time without getting angry, so I dont really think that was the reason for the initial break-up. I know that it was because of my anger and the stupid things I said that caused her to not want to speak to me. I blame myself, for being stupid and causing someone I really care about to leave me. I really regret it, and I wont forgive myself anytime soon. I still wish I could have her back though. I really wish I could.

This is a weird situation obviously for anyone, since kissing is a very important part of any relationship. As a young boy, one of the first rules I learned about kissing was letting the girl lead. It works good that way, in my opinion. But I'm sure in time your kisses will improve as you each start to learn each others methods. If it is really important to you, you might as well tell him. Seriously, if this is so bad that you may even consider ending things, just tell him how you feel about his kisses. He should understand, you gotta let the girl lead.

In my opinion and experience, stay away from the situation. Sounds like something I had gone through once, and if you plan on having a relationship with her friend, its not going to work. If you hate your ex, or just want to hurt her, go for her friend. But basically, you're gonna end up hurting someone, and its going to end up in a negative way.

In my opinion and experience, stay away from the situation. Sounds like something I had gone through once, and if you plan on having a relationship with her friend, its not going to work. If you hate your ex, or just want to hurt her, go for her friend. But basically, you're gonna end up hurting someone, and its going to end up in a negative way.

Hi, I'm new here and I stumbled upon this board. Just wondering if I could talk to people I dont know and view some opinions. I am 21 years old, and I was with my girlfriend for 9 months before she broke up with me. Not a long time, but we clicked really early and were always really close. Feels like we were together for ages. Anyways, we always had problems, right from the beginning, but we worked through everything. I am bipolar and have constant mood swings. I have a very bad temper, and she saw that for the first time about 4 months into the relationship, and it scared her. I had thought she cheated on me, and I didn't hold back any punches(not literally, I never hit her). I have a big mouth, and I say things I dont mean when I'm angry. Its like I cant control what I say. After a lot of fights, and a few breakups, we agreed that we would stop fighting about stupid things, and take things easy and focus on the good stuff. unfortunately for me, my depression kicked in at the wrong time, and sent me into a downward spiral after getting sick with bronchitis, and then having a small car accident. I had no money, and I was depressed. She broke up with me about a week after all that, we spent the morning together, had a good time and then she went to work. She called me from work and broke up with me over the phone. That morning was the last time I ever saw her. She said that she just didn't like the person I was, and that we weren't good for each other. After trying to contact her a few times, I once again lost my temper and said a few things that I regret saying. She wanted to have nothing more to do with me, and refused to speak to me ever again. A couple days after that, she sent me a message on msn apologizing for being a bitch, but again stating she didn't want anything to do with me. After that, she took off, and quickly came back online telling me that her brother had heard one of the stupid threatening messages I had left her, and ordered her to stay away from me, also mentioning that he may get some friends to do something to me. He is involved in some bad stuff, I hear. I dont know if I believe her, but I haven't contacted her since. Not for fear of her brother, just to get away from the conflict. I just want to get some opinions on the situation. I still dont really know why she broke up with me, when we promised each other we'd take things easy. A lot of people tell me she has found someone else, but for some reason I just dont see it. I am lost and confused, depressed and guilty. I just need to talk.