Ed4252

I asked when I was alone with her

I'm a very shy guy but I got the courage to ask a girl that I have liked for a couple months now out on a date a couple days ago. She has showed some what I believe some signs that she liked me or was just friendly..we have had many conversations together and she would also grab and hold my hand and say hi everytime I saw her, and give me hugs..She would also mention that I am smart and like to smile a lot to her friends and would mention to me about an instance where I was funny before and made her laugh when it already happened. Now I asked her out a couple days ago and this is how the conversation went: I asked her first if she was busy this weekend and she responded with that she was drinking on saturday(no in the back of my mind, I was thinking ok she might be available on sunday) When I asked if she wanted to go to the movies on sunday, she responded with a "maybe" response. Without thinking, I didn't ask her if that was a yes or no and just left it at that....When a girl says maybe, what does it usually mean? Should I ask her out again after a couple more days or just take it that she rejected me will again? P.S. I know that asking her out hasnt hurt our friendship because just yesterday when I saw her, she gave me a hug.

I really like this girl..we'll call her X. I always think about her and she is always on my mind. I've talked to X many times already and we share a common interest in music. Well when I was walking to her room, a girl(let's call her Y) called out my name when my back was turned away in front of X's closed door and without thinking, I said " Hi X" right near X's door ..and I'm not sure if X heard this or not. Now if X heard this, what should I do? I still can't believe I did this and I'm not sure how she will react..how would you girls react if you heard someone saying Hi to you without you being there I've already asked X before this all happened if she wanted to go to a concert together and she said yes.

To give you an update, I was about to ask her out in a couple of days because of the continued signals this girl has been sending me..constant touching, eye contact, etc...but today something happened that I didn't expect from her--while I was walking out of my friend's room I saw her with a group of friends and she asked me to do a cheer in front of them and it really embarrassed me.. I'm pretty sure she realized also that this embarrassed me. She even offered to help me by holding my hands.This just seemed weird that she would ask me to do this in front of her friends all so sudden right when I saw her today.

Well there is this girl that I really like in college that I have met near the end of last school year and were in different dorms and was also nervous so I really didn't get to know her but talked occasionally and mentioned that I was attractive(but wasn't sure if she was serious about that comment or not). We got to know each other by our same tastes in music. At the beginning of this school year, we were both very surprised that we were assigned the same dorms this year and I see her almost every day now. A couple days ago, she said hi to me and she said "I want to show you showing on my computer" and grabbed my hand and brought me in her room with some guys and her roommate in the room.. and also mentioned on one occasion that she would visit my room that night(but never did)-I live in a single and have no roommate. However, I see her hanging out with a lot of guys and I'm not sure if she is involved with anyone. What are some tell-tale signs that she likes me? and how do I indirectly ask her whether she is involved with anyone? Also, I would like to remain friends with her for the whole school year...would asking her out ruin this if I am rejected?