krackie

I have some stories too 1. A friend of mine (S), her bf for 3 years, left her because he started hanging out often with his ex crush from highschool. So he taught that he had a chance with the crush. So he decided to leave his gf. S was devastated. She couldn't accept it. Slowly, she did NC. She started dating other guy and partying just to get over her bf. After few months, the bf's crush left him for another guy. He was so upset. Then he started missing S. He started texting her, telling her how much he missed her and all. He realises that she's the one that he really loves. As for S, she was unsure about it because she's afraid that he'll do the same thing again. She still loves him a lot. So they both decided to take things slowly. As in just talk, text, IM and nothing serious. Day by day, they started getting closer. They started to feel comfortable with each other again. And so the guy as her if she could give him a second chance. She agrees and now they're together for almost 1 and half years. And they're happy! 2. A friend of mine, (J), was going out with her bf for 2 years. The problem in their relationship is, her bf is too obsess over his friends. Up to the point where, whenever J ask him out for a dinner or even date, he'll bring a friend along with him. Basically, his friends are more important than J. So J decided to call it off. After the break up, J was very sad but she knows she gotta do it. So became a workaholic just to forget about the pain. As for her bf, he started to realise what an *** he is. J went NC until her ex initiate contact. For about few months they were in LC. He'd call her out and they hang out but just as friends. At one point, the guy said that he would like to get her back. As for J, she knows that she still loves him. So she told him that if he really want things to work out between them, he needs to realise his mistakes and start all over again. (as in how he chase her before they were a couple). So he did exactly what he was suppose to do. And now, they are happily together for almost 2 years. 3. This one is not really a successful story. A friend of mine (H) was going out with his gf for 3 years. And then one day, she decided to leave him (normal excuse from girls, wanna see the world, think the grass is greener on the other side and not ready for commitment). He started NC on the day itself. He went to another state just so he won't be close to her.(they were studying in the same college). After 2 weeks, he has to get back to college. In college he saw her again and since they had a lot of things that requires both of them to do it together, he decided to be friends with her. It is very hard for him. At the same time, another girl who has a crush on him found out that he's single now and started to go after him. And he was just playing around, and didn't get in a rebound with that girl. His ex found out about it and she started being close to him again and ask for reconciliation (after 1 month). They both agree to get back together. After 3 months getting back together, they got in a very huge argue over something. And he realises that the feelings he had for her has change and vice versa. So they both agree to break up and just be friends. Now, they both are best friends.