Sweet Sad Soul

Well thank you very much! I hope that your relationship brings a lifetime of happiness! Im sure I will have many more problems as well and I hope that you will be there to help me out if you can. I will be here to help you any time if I can! Stay Sweet!

Well I am glad that I can help you! To answer your question, I always thought he was a good looking man but I never thought of him as something more than a friend. I never thought he would think of me as something more than a friend either. Of all the relationships I have had, I have learned that because he and I were friends first, that it has helped our relationship to grow stronger than I had ever imagined. It was more like one day he and I were together and it was just different. A simple hug seemed to make me feel things that I hadn't felt from him before. That was when I knew that there was something growing between us and it was/is beautiful! Hope this helps sweetie!!

Well I am no expert by no means but I will say that when it comes to affairs of the heart, it is never easy. I am not so sure that you should start avoiding the people you hang out with because in the end you may need them. If she feels that she can do what she wants to do with whomever then maybe you should consider venturing out with someone else as well. I am having a little situation myself that has made me think of what I need to do. I wish I could tell you the magic words to make it all better but I don't know such words. I will say try to be her friend and leave yourself open to meeting someone new. I do know that women can be flirty with men and never mean anything by it but being nice and I have seen where men took it the wrong way. All I can say is good luck to you. It is true that you don't know what you have till it's gone, but it is also true that sometimes you don't know what your missing till it arrives.

Well sweetie it didn't happen over night. I knew a while before he did. He always cared for me and loved me but after we got really close it was about 6 months and I noticed that he was growing closer to me and he has continued to do so since then. We had know each other for 16 years but have only been really really close for the past two. I have never been more in love in my life and I believe that even if it has to end that being with him was the best decision I ever made! I hope this helps! Let me know if I can help anymore! Good Luck to you!

Hi there! Well if you read my post you will see that I do believe that you can fall in love with your best friend! I have been in love with mine for two years now. Because we were best friends first, and still are of course, we have such a strong bond together that is priceless! We have our problems like any one else does but we have a strong will to make it work because of the friendship that is also involved in it. Good Luck to you! I hope this helps you!

Thanks JG's Girl, I have talked to him about how all of this makes me feel. Thats when he tells me that he loves me more than anything and never wants to hurt me. He says that he dosen't want to be on an emotional level with anyone else, he just wonders what it would be like to sleep with someone else. I can understand how he could feel that way and I appreciate his honesty. I do fear that I will end up pushing him away but I am scared that one day he will actually do something and I don't know that I could carry on with him if that happened. I don't know how to stop worrying so much and not punish him when he hasn't done anything. Every time he goes out with the guys, I think to myself well this could be it. I dont' know if I should continue to be in the relationship this deeply with him or try to be just friends. We do have a bond that is magical, deep, loving and true and I don't want to lose it. But what am I to do?

Hi there everyone. I am new to this and I need to get some stuff of my chest and some advice would be nice as well. Be gently though Well there it goes. I have known the guy I live with, for 16 years. We have been best friends for a little over two years and well not long after that we also started sleeping with each other. He was 24 and a virgin and I was 21 and was not. Well things were wonderful when we brought our relationship to the next level. He truly is my best friend. We talk about every thing. He is very good to me, he is honest to a fault and takes care of me. There are a millions things I could tell you about him that makes him such a nice and wonderful guy. My problem is this: for years before we slept together, since he was a virgin, he resorted to internet porn and such to get his "release". Well I believe that he may have gotten addicted to that. Not to mention that the things you watch in porno's and see on the internet, some of them are outrageous. I will say that I am open to try things when it comes to sex but I do not want more than me and him in the bedroom if you know what I mean. Well since I am the only person he has ever "been with", he is now wondering what it would be like to "be with" someone else!!! He hasn't acted on it and he may never. He knows that it hurts me to even think about it. I don't know what to do. I find that I have gotten really jealous since I learned of this and its like I am trying to make sure that it dosen't happen. He tells me that he loves me more than anything in the world and never wants to hurt me. He may never do anything with anyone else but believe it or not I actually feel bad that if he dosent' do something that he will always wonder and resent me because of it. I don't know what to do. I don't want to leave him but sometimes I think maybe it would be best to just be friends for a while and just see what happens. I am so in love with him and I love him more than anything and I tressure our friendship and love. I would never want to lose it. PLEASE help me! I feel that I will push him away for being jealous now. Can someone give me some advice? Please be gentle Thanks for reading this!