I didn't come upon this post right away... But today will be 8 days since my ex boyfriend and I talked. The last time we had contact was a week ago yesterday when he texted me asking about my spring break plans... I have no idea why he texted me and it was a short and confusing conversation. Apparently it didn't mean anything though since he hasn't contacted me since then. I love and miss him so much. I feel like this is getting harder everyday. NC: 8 days. Breakup: 20 days.