Manaolana

gaining someone's trust isn't an easy thing to do... it takes time... you should talk to your boyfriend and reassure him that he can trust you... don't hold back, if you love him, tell him... there is nothing worse than holding back, its better to be open... make it a point to be more open with him, once he begins to notice that, he'll realize he can trust you... don't rush him into putting his trust in you, people that have been hurt before need time... please feel free to return some advice ...

sometimes girls can be really insecure at times... maybe your girlfriend had relationship problems in the past and she's being so cautious which leads her to act this way... my advice to you is sit down and talk to her... let her know exactly what you said, and how you feel, and to trust you... its hard not to believe someone when they are speaking from the heart... give her time, she may not come around right away, but you reassuring her about how you feel will help her. but if she does not change her attitude then maybe its best for you to reevaluate how you're going to spend your time. there's nothing worse than being with someone who doesn't believe in you. relationships are built on trust, that's what you need. but all in all, have a talk with your girlfriend, and try to work things out, trust me you'll feel better about it feel free to return the advice...

i've known my best friend since we were five... over the years i slowly fell in love with him, i don't even remember how it all started... we are now nineteen, both practically grown up, and yet we are still the best of friends... we did try taking our relationship a step further awhile back but we ended breaking up. now he is dating someone else and i am too... but the problem starts here... i am still deeply in love with my best friend. we both know that we have a future together but its a mutual unsaid feeling... we've talked about the possibilty... but we know we're both still young. i do have feelings for my current boyfriend but i can't seem to let go of my best friend. one of the reasons i ended up with my boyfriend is because my best friend said that he didn't want me missing out on other chances and to see what is out there... and that's exactly what i'm doing... my problem is i don't know whether to move on and try to work on my relationship with my boyfriend or to listen to what my heart says... sometimes i wonder if shutting off my best friend completely would be what's best for me and my feelings? i don't understand him sometimes... he'll say one thing but his actions say the opposite... maybe i believe that because we are completely different... he tells me i'm his other half. and then again i don't know if i should break up with my boyfriend and be patient for another chance with my best friend? because it feels unfair to be in this relationship that i can't put my all into...