Well, it's been 5 months since my ex left and moved in with another guy (this after a 10 year relationship). Had to remain in contact during this period to sort out finances, property, etc which were all finalsied a couple of weeks ago. It's been 4 days now since she last contacted me (I didn't respond)..
Unlike a lot of people that have posted here, I have had no urge to contact my ex (95% contact has been initiated by her over the past few months). Not sure if this is because I've known from the beginning she is with someone else so I've subconsciously resigned myself to the fact that there is nothing I can do to change the situation?
Funny though, despite not wanting to contact her I still think about her and like today, often feel a bit down and sad. I'm now at a stage though that I kind of want her to contact me so I can ignore her text/email. Not sure if that is normal?!
