confused man

Hi I am 24 years old I got married to my first true love and it was only 14 months after meeting her. I don't regret her but I think we should have waited. We are having a rough time with our feeling. But I to, like others think 16 is a little young. live life he will always be there no matter what and if he's not well then it answers your question, WAIT

Well son first of all this gurl that says she likes you has a boyfriend? Whats up with that?? if she likes you that much he would be gone. Don't ever do anything your friends provoke you to do. Do it on your own. What you want to do. thats all I can say man Peace out

I am 24 years old I married a half year now. I have one daughter that isn't mine biologically but going though the adoption process, and a 2 month old boy. We fell for each other right away and moved in together just 4 months after meeting. This morning I was going to go to the doctors for a vasectomy. When my wife ( that works nights) got home she was balling. I finally got it out of her that she didn't want me to go threw with it. Then she kept crying telling me that she was in her car in the parking lot of her work with a Male co-worker that she knew for 2 weeks now. she was telling him her problem (as she says) She talks about how he reminds her of me and how nice he is. And the people at work tell her how beautiful she is. Well then she says she's not happy. She says there's something missing. She even admitted we don't fight, no abuse, no drinking, have a house, 2 cars, everything she ever wanted in life, but this one thing she says she needs. I know we don't go out much with the kids and all, but she needs more. Said the reason that she don't want me to get a vesectomy is becauase, "What if somthing happens and we are sepperated and you want to have more kids. then you would blame me" I think she is sereously thinking about leaving me?? PLease give me some advise. it is hurting her and me and I reall y need to know about this guy from work she talks to. Is she doing anything with her==im or what PLease PLease help