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  1. That is really a tough decision to make. If you have said that to her before about other guys and she thought you were jealous, I think if you keep pursuing the fact that any guy she is going to be with will hurt her could do one of two things. She will either listen to you, and become afraid of guys, or kick someone to the curb, and it's not likely to be the guy she is dating if you know what I mean. It sounds like she already knows how you feel, but you don't want to press the issue. The best thing you can do is to be there for her if/when she does get dumped. The other thing, you may end up surprised, where it seems like to people that appear to be completely incompatible, end up being the happiest couples. Or there is the number 3 reason (actually the number one, but no one LIKES to look at it that way, as they say the friendship come first). You desire your female friend. You want to be the one in her life to help her out, to make her happy and keep her from getting upset. Sometimes that's the absolute worse thing you can do, because if she denies you, there is now this irreparable bridge between the two of you because you confessed your feelings. So that is the biggest paradox of all with a friendship, you want to protect your friends feelings, but you want to be the person in your friends life, but if you aren't that person your friend sees as a romantic interest, then wham, you just did what you never wanted to do, hurt your friend. So, again, if you are just a friend, you will learn that she needs to learn from her mistakes, not you telling her she's making a mistake. That's what PARENTS are supposed to, not friends. Friends are there to pick up the pieces after their friends fall apart. Think about that.
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