My two best friends are breaking up!
My friend T introduced me to S 2 years a go when they started going out and since then S and I have been inseperable, T and I have remained good friends.
For the past couple of months S has been very unhappy in the relationship as T is very materialistic sometimes and can be quite insulting to his friends, even his family. I have had a fair number of run in's with him myself.
A couple weeks a go S met a lovely guy, A and started becoming quite involved with him, she then told T she wanted a break.
T was devestated and turned to me for answers to his questions knowing that I would know all the answers but obviously I couldn't tell him anything through loyalty to S.
Things weren't helped by the fact that we all go to the same college and have to see eachother every day.
Now, we went out at the weekend in a big group (my boyfriend is also a friend of T's) and the night ended in S and T appearing to have got back together (S had told T what was up apparently and they then spent the night together). Since then T had been a lot happier and trying to improve though I know it won't last as it's very hard to change the habit of a lifestyle.
My problem is that yesterday S and A made things official and are now a true couple yet I know it will be me who has to deal with T and the consequences.
I'm happy for S and A, I genuinely think he's a lovely guy and know that in the long run S is probably better off with him it just seems that she wants her cake and wants to eat it too while I'm left to (unwillingly) pick up the pieces.
What do I do? S is asking me what she should tell T and T is asking me if S is ok and telling me how well things are going.
Do I continue as I am and not tell either of them what the other says, stay out completely or something else? I'm at a complete loss!!
