My boyfriend is a decent guy. He's a good man with a big heart and has integrity and is very loyal. He's not an alcoholic or drug addict but when he is drunk or high, he's very sloppy. I know how to handle my substances but he clearly does not. It doesn't happen often but enough that it's a problem. He's falling down, talking gibberish and sometimes is belligerent. His personality changes completely. He's never violent, he's total goof. I feel like I should be tolerant because it's so rare, I should just tell him to sleep it off and let it go.
This sounds like an alcoholic ... I think I just answered my own question. 🙂
We have such a good relationship and it breaks my heart that I'll have to end it because of the occasional bender.
Seem to me that it won't change...
