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  1. Good for you! ALL the boxes don't have to tick. You enjoy her company....she enjoys yours! Can't get any better than that!!!
  2. CRAP! calland make an actual DATE...that way she'll have to say yes or no. Sometimes I get busy...think I'll answer later...and then later never happens. Especially when it's a new thing.....
  3. This has really nothing to do with the OP....but i read the whole thread and was wondering why a 'doll' was worse than watching porn....fantasizing you are with the porn star and jacking off.....or with a doll and fantasizing who knows what. Either one is a fantasy in his head. I don't find a doll any worse than a real live person on screen. I'm thinking he's locking 'her' up so the kids don't accidently find her. You have lots of issues....but I don't find a life size doll to be the biggest. Have you ever known him to 'use' her yet??? Maybe she's just a 'crush' and he'll get tired of her. Als
  4. awwww....I haven't had that for so long! Does feel good tho….
  5. After the fiancé dumped me for another woman....back in 2010....what brought me here, I was a HOT MESS too! And before. After a mental health nurse (friend) mention Borderline Personality Disorder, I read up on it. Had never heard of it. Spectrum illness. Emotions go from really up.....and crash at the drop of a hat. I went to a Dr. cuz I didn't want to say I had BPD, if I didn't. He told me he 'didn't have time for "somebody like me", and shoo'd me out of his office". I was crying. Said i'd been messed up since 7th grade. Don't know how he pulled that number out of his head. The whole time I
  6. I'm sorry about your mental health and ongoing issues with hubby. I can't help you with any of that....but has anyone talked to you about Restless Leg Syndrome. I remember my mom laying in bed bouncing her legs up and down. Then my twin brother had it....so it doesn't just affect old people. I have it when I do a lot of sitting. Unless you have it, you can't describe it. I always said it feels like your legs need exercise. I sometime just stomp them on the floor, move them up and down, rub. But I think it help to get up and WALK. It's more irritating than anything. But look it up. I think ther
  7. My sis met her husband on eHarmony 10 years ago. Her time was just running out....he was just getting on. I tried during a free week or something. NOTHING. My sis is 6.5 years younger than me. Her hubs is my age. My twin bro met a woman on Match. He was almost 60, she was 33 with young children. When I got on eHarmony I didn't WANT a man 10 years older than me. You couldn't pick an age group. Plus, there was no one around me. I think eHarmony is about dead....
  8. Hi Cynders!!! I was looking at the forum, and noticing all the people i use to read, not on anymore. (I only comment) and i saw your name. I thought....surely NOT! But it was. Will look at your painting....but because I"M NOSEY....what's going on in your life? Romantically??? Anything???
  9. I was always told....the min. you stop looking, is the day someone will walk into your life! Hasn't happened to me...yet. But you are in such a good place, and once you move into your house, and fixing it up, you won't have time to dwell on your love life. Then after this pandemic is over, you are settled, you can head on out!!!!! Good Luck.....So happy for you!
  10. lol....exactly what Seraphim said. If i like someone....they can text the crap out of me. If im not that into them....why are they bothering me??? This 'woman' sounds as if she's 13!!!
  11. LOL...i didn't know that you weren't suppose to text again, if the person hadn't answered. I'm a long winded person, in writing, and verbage! lol. Sometimes I'll text a bunch....send....then remember something else I wanted to say. Or....when I had an actually bf, Anytime during the day, if I thought of something I wanted to tell him...I just told him. By text. I didn't expect a reply right away. That's why I like text, they can respond anytime they want. Even if I've sent 3 texts...not of course saying...hey, what's up....why aren't you responding!??? I have a feeling your new friend was exci
  12. I feel like Wiseman said....if a guy just said, here's my number...call me. I wouldn't. Not after one date. I think a guy should be stepping up to the plate and pursuing ME this early in the game. I also, many years ago, had a gf who when she first met her future husband, she said he felt like an old friend she'd known forever. They were older. His wife died. Her divorced. Thru misunderstanding...he asked her out again...she said she couldn't. He took that as not interested. She WAS. Her Mother, who was in her 80's said CALL HIM. She did. Now married many years. The thing is, misunderstandings
  13. I hope IAmFCA is OK......or maybe she is just happy! We need an update!
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