SA2000
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Uugh! Why did she text me?! That wasn't fair.
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Day 5. She just broke NC. Said she's been praying for me and my mom who is sick. She said she knows I won't respond but... It's hard not to respond. I really love her. I justt can't let her put me through this every month. Either you're with me 100% or not.
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Jinky, I agree with you man. NC cant work long term obviously if you want them back. My ex left a few days ago. AGAIN. I am finally seeing the light. She wants the old confident me back. Not the begging crying baby that I became. NC is the opposite of what she expects. Thus is why it works. But I can already feel myself coming back. And by the time I am fully back who knows if I will even want my ex back? Just keep cool, calm, and collective. Its your confidence that will bring her back. Once you realize this its game over.
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Still Day 4 but a couple buddies said they saw her at a bar with her mom. Her Mom mentioned my name and she stormed out. Why does this make me happy you ask? Because NC is taking hold. She said she would "respect my wishes" by not calling but hey she broke up with me so it's her who has to call. It has given me new hope which might be a bad thing but I'll take it. Also I think I saw her while she was driving off. I was singing in my car and turned and smiled just as her car was pulling up to the intersection. Now I just gotta wait...
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Day 4 Music is helping me get through. I know I will be fine. Starting to feel better. Just waiting for the inevitable text or call from her to ask me to pay a bill or ask if I received the check for our security deposit yet. But I am starting to feel like this really IS for the best. Ill always love her but I had become someone I dont even recognize. Time to get ME back.
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Day 3 It's not getting easier. Rough morning. This place makes me depressed though so I probably wont be back for a while. Maybe Ill come back if we reconcile in 6 or so months with a success story. I wont count on it but it has happened before. Only to break up 9 months later due to our lack of growth as individuals.
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Day 2. For some reason I seem to be getting madder and madder at the whole situation. I keep thinking about all of the stuff she was doing behind my back. She dated someone else for a few months when we broke up last year. Then when we got back together she said she was no longer going to contact him. She was basically talking to him the whole time and seeing him the whole time. She says it wasnt like that and they would talk here and there. All lies. She called me drunk the night after we broke up and asked me to pick her up. She called him while I was in the store. I came out and she was arguing with him saying she was getting a ride home from a "friend". Really? After 6 years? Ok. Im not going to be that guy anymore. Done.
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Just found this place. Lots of good info. I just broke up with my ex of over 5 years yesterday. We closed the door on our old pad and said goodbye. She called me crying saying that she wouldnt contact me anymore. I told her that it was for the best. So this is Day 1. I have gone NC before as we have been on and off due to her being "confused". She always calls within a few days. I think this time is different though. Every time we break up she runs to this other guy who "was there for her when I wasn't". Its time to put my foot down and not allow the games to continue. We both need time to heal. I love her and honestly think that we are meant to be together whatever that means but I don't want her like this. I have to give her her half of the security deposit. Here goes nothing...