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Everything posted by SA2000

  1. Shes got you on the backburner. Return the favor or just forget about her. The more you chase her the more she'll run. The more you dont care the more shell be after you.
  2. I am guessing you hear from her soon now that she knows that you are in demand these days. Funny how it works.
  3. I felt the same way at first but then when it happens you realize that its not the same and you dont want that from these new ladies. When they do that type of stuff it always freaks me out a little. Like "slow down, baby!" The girl I went on a few dates with a few weeks ago got really drunk and started talking about me like I was her boyfriend. Yeah. That was the last time I spoke with her. On the other hand when they dont act all cuddly you are like what the H? Having a GF is nice and all but do you really want all that comes with it at this point? If a girl acts too clingy right away or within the first few weeks/months I will be GONE. And with the ex I was the clingy one. Funny how it works.
  4. Get a side job bartending. You'll meet tons of ladies. I bartended for 6 years and met tons of people.
  5. Diversify your portfolio and lower your risk exposure.
  6. Maybe she heard about the other chica and cant bare to see you tagged w/ her.
  7. You'd also have to deal with the resentment. It's something I didn't anticipate when we tried again the first time. We would be sitting on the couch watching tv and I'd look at her and think how could you walk away and see someone else after all of these years? Why did I come back when I could have just kept walking? I would start little fights and get in bad moods over nothing. Every time her phone rang or she was texting I had to question who it was. I cant live like that. All I wanted was her back. Once I had her back I just wanted out again because the trust was destroyed. Knowing what you know (what she claims is not true) could you honestly be sitting there watching tv with her phone blowing up? Something so simple you wouldn't think twice of with someone else. You have to consider that as well. I sure as hell wasn't ready. And I'm a pretty laid back type dude.
  8. Haha. I feel the same way Kidd. I think about how much I miss her and what we had and blah blah blah but then I think about what life would be like if she came back 100%. Would I even want her back? It'd be more stress than it's worth! I know that I am addicted more to the pain and the struggle because every time she gets close I push her away again. She has said some borderline crazy stuff in the past that could have probably allowed recon but I always end up going back to NC. Think of it this way. If she came back like she did at your apt earlier and said she wanted to be with you would you be able to let all of this go? What of the other lady kept texting you and the ex started to act a little flakey? I know what I'd do. You can't realistically be with someone with that mindset. It's all about the chase. But once they start to show signs that they want to come back it's you questioning things.
  9. I've been there. All of the sudden they just come out of nowhere. But remember that if you want the pick of the litter you are going to have to show her where you stand by not rolling in the dirt with the runts.
  10. I am guessing you get a chilly response on this one Kid. I have been the other guy and I didnt really mind it at the time. I was actually your age then now that I think about it. But becareful man. What goes around does come back around. Also you dont want that girl breaking up with her boyfriend for you if those arent your intentions. Of course if she is sleeping with someone else she should probably break up with him anyways. Now it seems as though the challange is to find a girl who wont let you get between the sheets within the first two nights that you see her. Now that is attractive.
  11. Hey Kid where you been at? Taking another ENA break?
  12. I had a date a few nights ago. The upside: She was nothing like you. The downside: She was nothing like you.
  13. Yup. Remember these days and make the most of them. At 22 in January I was sitting in a hot tub in Miami with like 4 ladies at like 4 am. Good times. Enjoy it while it lasts.
  14. I know what you mean 22. At some point though you gotta get back out there. Wait till you're ready though. You'll be glad you took the extra time. I feel way better about dating now. When I first started dating shortly after the split it just wasn't really in me either. After a few months things start to change.
  15. Agreed Gallop. I think that's why there are so many divorces. You have to live it up at some point and get that out. If everyone did that there would be no GIGS.
  16. Keep it up when you get back to school. Enjoy that last semester. Ah to be in college again.
  17. One of my buddies had "Red pants" in his phone for a while. Haha.
  18. I told him that. He might just be like eff it though.
  19. Got a FB message from P. He was banned for spamming I guess. He said he mentioned his album and got the permanent boot. Lame. Friend him on FB. If you look through my friends his last name starts with an A and he has Profound in his name.
  20. Hey. Met someone new so if all goes as planned you are going to have to stop randomly trying to show up in my life for a week or so. It feels good to say I am close to moving on. I also like knowing the d-bag you are dating is a real POS. You really screwed that one up. But everyone saw that coming so it should be of no surprise. Haha.
  21. Haha. It's all good. Hopefully my trials and tribs can be helpful to others. I'll hit him up on FB and tell him to give an update. I still have to pick up his album. Yeah man this new girl kinda gamed me. I opened the door and she is walking through it. I love it when it works out that way. I haven't heard from the ex in a few days but given her track record that doesn't mean anything. Haha.
  22. Hey now. Nothing wrong with prolonged limbo! Haha. Just kidding. It sucked. But I have a feeling it might come to an end real soon. I met a new lady (not really new. I knew of her in HS.) so now it wont really matter what the ex says or does. I'm guessing she no longer wants to be "friends" when I start dating someone else. Haha. Good for you though Kid. Knowing where you stand and what you want is a great quality to have in life. They made the mistake of taking our niceness as weakness. Oh well. Haha.
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