Here are my thoughts:
Birthdays: I see nothing wrong with sending your Ex a Simple Birthday card, especially if it is their birthday a couple months after the break-up but do it this way. Send the Card, a simple card, on the actual day of their birthday so it arrives late. This could have a 2 factor impact:
- It will arrive late. They might have been thinking."He/She didn't remember" and they will realize how they were feeling and it gets you in their mind again.
Xmas: Same principle as above.
Valentines & Any Milestones such as what would have been a 1 year anniversary. Totally ignore these. This shows you are being Needy, Desperate and have not moved on.
Remember this:
"The Power in any relationship lies with the ONE who needs it the least"
