Elod_M

i know what your goin thru, i've been it before and still kind of am. Anywayz, i'm not a perfect relationship expert, but i'll give you my 2 cents worth. If she moved on with no problems and your left behind crying, theres a slight positive side for you. cuz ur the 1 who go hurt so bad and she just moved on, it means she didn't feel about u the same way u did about her, and if u got hurt so bad, u didnt do anything rong, u made all the right moves, if she left so easily, she didnt really care, and maybe it was better to end it now then later for you, but by the sound of it, it still didnt end to well for you. I'm sorry to hear about your problems, maybe what i've said can help you out a bit, good luck in the future.

let me make this simple with the facts. I'm a 16 year old guy. in my circle of friends theres a girl i REALLY like. a year and a half ago, i asked her out and she said no. we're still friends. then i got a car at 16, she started to hang out with me more often, i know she was using me for my car, but i didnt care cuz i really like her. she likes to drink alot, i dont really care cuz when she drinks she gets loose and gave me (and other guys) some. i'm a good friend of hers, cuz she tells me all her troubles and stuff like that. now she got her own car, she doesnt really hang out with me outside of school that often anymore. but when we do hang out, she still tells me everything she did on the weekend, including which guy she did. I really dont like hearing this crap (ok, i'm jealous) and it pisses me off that i'm just her "nice" friend. mainly, she doesnt do anything with me cuz i'm not like her other bad boy friends who smoke/drink heavily/and do every drug out there. So i'm just her friend that is basically pu$$y whipped without the pu$$y (pardon my terms), she walks all over me, asks for rides here and there, money, and other things, and i give in and she uses me. the thing that really pisses me off is she ditched me now that she has her own car, and i perosonally wanna punch her in the nose (i'm not that kinda guy though, remember, im the "nice guy") other things, she tells me everything she did on the weekend and stuff and it pisses me off, how can i "send the signal to her without talking" that i dont give a rats ass what or who she did and make her feel guilty that she doesnt invite me anywhere anymore? Also, (I know its not love) but is there a complex reason why i've liked her for years, even after she said no to me, or is it a simple physical attraction? (my friends just say if u do her once, you get over her), but that doesnt seem to the case, i think its heavier, but not heavy as love. So, theres my situation, i'm glad you took the time to read it, and PLEASE give me your input, cuz this crap ha caused SOOOOOO much trouble to me, like i'm talkin suicide due to rejection and jealously. even if you dont have a complete solution, just give me a comment, anything. thank you.