Probably people will say that
"Don't care about past and focus on at the moment"
"The past that makes and constructs our personality as who we are"
"PAst is past and you can't change it and ignore the past"
I know.. I hear such a things a lot too.. And Also we know it too when wwe are far from this issue about advise.. But in fact when fire drops on ourselves, feeling pain of burn harder than the hearing scream..
Me as a man had same too. Even during my ex marriage that obsession makes me mad and everyday i was tırtured by my own thoughts. So time will reduce your pain and techs you to live with that, or break apart the relationship..
What you live about obsession of his/her past is very natural. We can't endure that someone else already lived same nice moments with our partner and our partner joy same things what he/she had with us already with someone else too.. It is very normal and i understand you..
