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  1. And I’m about to begin going to more art openings and figuring out how to branch out. I’ve never heard of meetups though. I’ll look into it. Thanks!
  2. I don’t like women that treat me like crap. But somehow I manage to find them. I have infinite patience and the capacity to forgive. Those traits can be wonderful, but you’re right that I end up a doormat more often than not. The problem is, I don’t realize it at the time. Hindsight is 20/20 and it isn’t until things are over that I can view them objectively, unfortunately.
  3. This is great. The last part about how I’m thinking of the future and past is accurate. I try to live in the present. Sometimes easier said than done. I’m working on it. Thank you!
  4. I want to be clear that I didn’t get her the job as part of a master plan lol. I liked her at the time, and I put a good word in for her. But I didn’t ever think I’d bother to ask her out when that happened. The only reason I did was because a mutual friend told me she was into me. Very high school. It was a sure thing that I thought I could handle if things went badly. I’m certainly NOT orbiting, going out of my way to interact, or even look in her direction for that matter. I’m trying to get her out of my head. Not torture myself. If I didn’t need to be at this specific job, I’d leave it
  5. Hi all, I've written here before and it has really helped. I figured I would give it a try again. For a bit of back story: Prior to dating my ex was a girl I knew for two years and was INCREDIBLY smitten with. We would quietly "like" each others instagram posts but didnt know each other that well. She contacted me asking if there were any jobs open where I worked, so I did my best to get her hired. I eventually found out she was interested in me so I got up the courage to ask her out. On our third date she mentioned that she didnt know if she was ready for a new relationship (she had bas
  6. I’m not having a bashing session and I don’t appreciate you boiling it down to that or your judgment. I plan to leave her. I guess I just needed to talk to someone. To have some additional input, to KNOW that I’m making the right call, and to seek advice on how to best deal with the situation. It’s hard when your head isn’t in the right place because you’ve been slighted. If I wanted to have a bashing session I’d go ahead and tell my friends (who she also works with) about this. And I’m not going to do that. I don’t want to ruin her life.
  7. I should be clear that her current convos with him aren’t sexting by any means. Just flirtatious. And exhibiting a “fondness” for what they had (which was sexting at the time). We’ve been together for about a year. I know she would never physically cheat, but lying about convos and maybe emotionally cheating is more the concern. But yeah the cousin thing is pretty messed up. She was pretty unstable when she entered into a sexting relationship with him about a year and a half ago. That I could understand to some extent. But still? Yeah it’s weird.
  8. So I’ve posted on this site before when I was in a bad place and everyone has helped me a great deal. Sometimes you can’t see the forest for the trees so I’m hoping for some clarity. I can’t talk about this with my friends because it may change the way they view my gf. Basically over a year ago before we were dating she was in a bad spot emotionally and had a flirty text and pic exchange with her first cousin. She told me this early on in our dating. How it was a huge mistake, how he hurt and ghosted her, etc. Anyway, it’s been a sore spot for me and brings me some feelings of insecurit
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