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  1. marshmallito
    Sorry Reaper, yours is not a reconciliation story yet. My advice is start your own thread in the breaking up section. Repost your story and put some paragraphs in so you get more readers and advice.
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    46 Days Ouch I am back reading posts... reminding myself why I am NC. I just want to know how he is, hear his voice. The time has made it easy to see the flaws in our relationship. But I still miss him today. I keep thinking, if we aren't going to get back together whats the harm in contacting him, confirming that he isn't interested. But then I think, what if he is missing me and considering getting back together with me, this may ruin my chance. Please help. Why shouldn't I be the one to reach out?
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    Day 38 I think I have finally let go. Probably time, space and having a potential new boyfriend to flirt with have all contributed. I still hope to hear from him, I never wanted the relationship to end... but I don't expect it anymore.
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    yaguara, what is her reason/excuse for calling you? Day 35 I can't believe I still need to be here. It has been very hard to resist calling. I nearly cracked twice since my last post. I want to know how he is, is he happy yet, does he have regrets, can he ask for what he wants in the relationship rather than focusing on what it isn't etc etc I didn't beg or anything, we had one breakup talk, and another conversation two weeks later. Like myself, I know he feels a failure for not having a family, yet unlike myself he doesn't seem to want to build a strong relationship and make it last.
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    Oh, and blocking him on Facebook... its been days now and I feel liberated!
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    Day 34 I am starting to see the potential for a future relationship with a man I have been "seeing". So intelligent and charming and communicative. Nowhere near as attractive as my ex, but and as stupid as it sounds, I wonder what he would think if he saw me with this man. Confirmation that I wasn't good enough for him. I am still hoping for him to contact me
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    Paramore, I think you should start a thread of your own, for advice handling the details of your break up. While you are replying to texts and actually breaking up, you aren't ready to start the NC challenge. Hope to see you back here soon! Day 32 The sky hasn't fallen since I blocked him on Facebook. I know he used to monitor my wall, when I broke NC, he wanted to talk about things people had posted there.
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    Not up to a new day, but I had to share that I just blocked him on Facebook. Waiting for the apocalypse...
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    Day 30 Well, I don't dream of him every night. I think I am grinding my teeth less often. I have been keeping busy working, socialising, dating... sadly this has meant I have gained a little weight. Would liked to say I have improved myself with exercise. I am not sure I am on the right track here. I think I will aim for 60 days now. And I will block him on Facebook at the end of that. If he hasn't even contacted me to find out how I am after the breakup, there is no need to keep the pretense of friendship on Facebook!
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    Day 29 So depressed today. My date was nice but he has more baggage than I expected... Hard to say, but I hope for marriage and kids, and he has been there done that. I think the mile stone for me was four weeks rather than 30 days. We had our breakup talk, I broke NC two weeks later, now I have almost made my 30 days. And where has it got me? I am not over it. He hasn't come back.
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    Birthdays are weird like that. My ex of a few years ago and his sister still contact me every birthday. They probably think they are being gracious but feels so empty, I don't know why they do it. Day 28 four weeks He hasn't reached out to me once. why why why why why why why why why why why why why why why why why why why why why why why why why why why why why why why why why why why why
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    I am glad it hasn't damaged you figmentations. Day 27 so close, I am not seeing the benefit in NC anymore. Maybe I am just overtired, emotional.
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    Day 26 Started out feeling good and strong, but I am starting to feel needy... too bad there is no one I can leach off. It is weird how you can have all these amazing friendships, attention from the opposite sex... but nothing replaces a partner.
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    Thanks for writing after 60 days Figmentations. Sometimes I feel a break from the boards would do me good, but I think I still need to be here, to remind myself not to reach out to him. Day 24 My girlfriend just fallen for a man that isn't her equal by superficial standards (intelligence, looks, career etc). He has such a kind generous nature, and you can see she is very precious to him. I hope I can find that. My ex was kind and generous, but I wasn't precious to him.
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    Day 23 I think I got some wallowing out of my system this week. Feeling better today, but still overeating, and my jaw still hurts so I had better get to the dentist. I have been on a date, and we talked for hours. I feel hopeful today that I will move on. I still miss my ex, miss teasing him, miss him rubbing my back.
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