lilyofthemount

how do dreams have connections in our present situation? do you believe in dreams.. how does it speak to us. it is almost 6 weeks since my break up wit my ex and i never had contact with him, the last two nights i have dream of him and it is almost both at the same time. he used to call me when we have a fight when we are still in a relationship and this last two nights i wake up with a dream about him exactly the same time with his last two calls wehn we break off.(details of the dream later) I wanted to call him to know how is he but i am afraid he might take it as me trying to rush back to him. Is it posible he is thinking about me and considering a second chance.. I wish i could talk to him but common sense says.. no.Any thoughts from you guys is greatly appreciated..

wow i appreciate this so much.. i just did what you describe in your email. i just broke off with my ex.. almost a m0nth and then after few days of breaking up i emailed him saying if we can go back and starch from the scratch .. i am willing to go back and kearn and grow from our mistakes. I love him and dont want to lose him and even sugest we start as we did before.. no string attached and go from ther. I waited for a week to his reply and answer..NONE. Then i sent the ultimatum. Goodbye letter. I told him i take his silence as a total closure for us and i am letting him go intirely...I told him i understand he want me totally out of his life and I repect that and wish him good luck..he replied immediately with.. "thank you for understanding i realised i am not ready for the commitment altho i yearned so much for intimacy..i dont blame you..it just we are in wrong timng..then go on and said something.. i see lots of changes happenning and i am learning more about myself about relationship. commitment ..balance..and rebound..i see things changing but not the way you think or forcast.------------- is not a part of this and there is nothing between us.. *********** the point i am trying to figure is.. is he done with me completely.. is there no second chance of us...please advice... its been a week now since our email excahnge and i havent talke or contact hi in anyway..right now i am not sure of my feelings toward him.. i want him back for sure but i am not sure of what level i want him in. please advise