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soporcogitavi

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About soporcogitavi

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  • Birthday 10/30/1978
  1. I believe this relationship is beyond repair, damage is too deep, and the wounds will never heal, both of you need to move on.
  2. Again, why is it better to just not want to know something? Why is it normal for us to compare someone we had a ONS with to someone we have a solid relationship, isnt that flawed, it shouldnt even be close.
  3. Im comparing the notion of not wanting to know something, not the acts or the subject. Why is it normal for us to compare someone we had a ONS with to someone we have a solid relationship, isnt that flawed, it shouldnt even be close.
  4. So its better not to know, and be naive about it? Its like saying I dont want to know if my partner cheated on me or not, because I dont want to hear the answer.
  5. see this is what I mean, how could this not bother someone, seriously.
  6. But we spend almost all our time in the bedroom, just jk. I realize what all you are saying, but i think this is a common thing to think about or be slightly insecure about, isnt it?
  7. So what makes a specific partner stand out in bed? What do they do that makes them the best?
  8. I believe this is a common insecurity amongst men. But it bothers me if she were to think about another man when we're making love. I think that would bother anyone. Not even sure why im stating this because I dont even know if thats the case, just my thoughts.
  9. I feel the sex we have is very good and I believe so does she, I know sometimes she has an orgasm multiple times. We sometimes talk about things we like and she always says I do everything. I think the subject came up once before and she said haveing sex with me cannot be compare to anyone else, because she's in love with me. Its still something I think about though and wonder about.
  10. So should I have reason to be insecure about this? What if this "other" guy was better then me in bed, could she be thinking about that and wishing I was better? If that is the case
  11. Im looking for an honest opinion from women here. Do you ever compare how good your man is in bed with past sexual partners, flings, relationships, etc? My Fiance has been with more partners then myself, some of them ONS, others relationships. I guess i have an insecurity about how good her last partners or ONS' were in bed and I wonder if im as good or if she ever thinks of this. I know before we met she had a few ONS and one of the guys she saw for awhile, she had no interest in having a relationship with him, from some of the details or info I got, i get the impression that she was w
  12. its just tough when you actually realize how many people it affects, even my family was shocked as they never saw this side of her, thats why sometimes i wonder if it was me causing her to be like this. And why am i only doing this after 4 years of us being together, was i so blind or am i the problem, maybe ill never be happy. just putting it out there.
  13. how long did it take you, part of me worries that she'll find someone else, and ill feel like i lost something good while im trying to make up my mind, i guess its an insecurity
  14. i appreciate the encouragement i guess im wondering if maybe it was my fault for letting things get like this, sometimes im over analytical and dont let things go as easily as i should, she is a great girl and she has many qualities i like, but overall my worry is that when things really get tough, marriage, kids, and both of us working we will just be on a destructive path, but how will i ever know if this is the case, and how can i tell if she's the one?
  15. i appreciate the encouragement i guess im wondering if maybe it was my fault for letting things get like this, sometimes im over analytical and dont let things go as easily as i should, she is a great girl and she has many qualities i like, but overall my worry is that when things really get tough, marriage, kids, and both of us working we will just be on a destructive path, but how will i ever know if this is the case, and how can i tell if she's the one?
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