hey everyone, are you still doing the challenge??.. awesome!..
I used to do the challenge as well, it´s a good one.. but soon I realized, sitting every day on my computer and reading all (the great!) comments about how to get my girl back brings me not a step closer to my goal.. cause I kept focusing on her.. and I forgot focusing on ME..
you can read it here over and over again: the only chance to get your girl back is to let her go and concentrate on YOUR life.. the most important relationship you can ever have is the one TO YOURSELF.. get your life back on track, give your life a sense and build up a vision you can work on.. and maybe your ex will recognize it and she will love it and maybe she gets back to you.. more important: even better girls will recognize it and they will love you for it.. but you have to do it for YOU not for her.. women sense that!
I met my ex in a pub two days ago. the one who puts me down two years ago and let me write all the stuff in this great forum. we had a view drinks and had fun.. thats it! no bad feelings, nothing.. you know why? cause I met a even better one after her. and that´s just two girls in this BIG BIG world!..
sorry superdave, I love your posts, I really do, they helped me a lot! but keep CONCENTRATING on NC is not what we should do. NC better means stop thinking about her over and over again and WALK ON..
it´s good to be here again!..