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Superman87

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  1. Nice story for you all... Two good friends of mine were together for 7 years, he proposed and everything seemed to be going well however 2 months later he called the engagement off and ended the relationship. She was heartbroken, his reasons were he felt like he hadnt lived etc and they both went and did their own thing, dating people etc. She never thought there was a chance they would get back together, 9 months later they get in contact again and start to see each other regularly. There now officially back together. I reckon the reconcilliation process took perhaps over a month. All those cheesey quotes really are true, if its meant to be it will be etc.
  2. Since you went away, my heart breaks every day and you dont know cos your not here.
  3. Never in my wildest dreams did i think that i'd be on tv talkin 'bout me and you girl.. i know ive seen it times before same episode but a different show so why are we in two was it something i did or did not do to make you mad didnt go out my way supply everything that you asked im confused so tell me how we messed up did we give up too soon you can put it on me if you like im just trying to make it right baby i just wanna start back loving you the way i did before yeah tell me can we go back if this love is real what we waiting for? okay, let me get this straight you say we never communicate we're always at each other we forgot how to love each other and when was the last time we both went out together it used to be all the time and now it seems like never but girl, im listening and i'ma change my mind if you give me this chance ill do it right this time im only human babe we all make mistakes i swear i learnt my lesson i hope its not too late you can put it on me if you like im just trying to make it right i just wanna start back loving you the way i did before yeah tell me can we go back if this love is real what we waiting for? i know it may not seem like the best thing i feel i might be losing the best thing all that we fought for we worked so hard for don't you remember hold on i just wanna start back loving the way i did before tell me can we go back if this love is real what are we waiting for? if this love is real what we waiting for? i just wanna start back loving you the way i did before loving you the way i did before tell me can we go back if this love is real what are we waiting for? if this love is real what we waiting for?
  4. Should no contact extend to the ex's family? For example if it was your birthday and they text you to say all the best etc. Curious.
  5. Day 2 I am still feeling quite numb and empty I think. I dreamed about her all night which wasnt great when I woke up. I am still finding it hard to accept that after so long together, she wanted it to end so soon. I am getting my head around the no contact thing though and understand that I am doing this for my self only. I am taking up boxing and tonight is my first night, so I am looking forward to that. It is also my birthday tomorrow, so I am expecting to receive a text message where I will duly ignore it and delete. PS - for those interested, I have gone No Contact immediately after the break-up. I know a lot of people go through the begging for another chance stage etc but I havent, so this challenge may be interesting to see how different methods work. Ben.
  6. Quick question - is there a best time to break no contact? I really want to do this firstly for myself, but deep down also to maybe hope she realises what she is close to losing. Is it a case of continuing and if, and that is a big IF you receive a text asking to discuss things you then decide whether to make contact?
  7. What a great idea, I was going to start keeping this down in a diary but this will be much better for me as hopefully at low times I can read the encouragement and advice. Ok, so here go's... Day 1 - Last night I was told that she loves me, but not in that special way anymore and doesnt see a future for us. She wants us to continue as friends and does not want me out of her life. I said this would not be possible. No contact started today and it couldnt have got off to a worse start, I received a text message this morning from the ex asking how I was. I deleted it straight away. I am thinking about her so much, although I have yet to break down in floods of tears. I cant believe after over 5 years it has ended so suddenly without her wanting to fix the problems. I am determined to do this.
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