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  1. I thought I used to be loving and emotionally available. But lately I feel like I changed so much I don't even resemble the person I used to be. I don't know what happened to me. I've been through trauma but I moved on. I find that I don't feel much for the world or people. I try to be a good person, but I don't care emotionally. I don't feel connected and I don't want to be. Is it possible to become emotionally unavailable later in adult life due to life's circumstances? I'm just so disappointed that nothing in my life turned out the way I hoped. I almost became cynical in a way. I see pe
  2. My long term bf has asked me when will we get married. It was not a proposal, just a question that could have been a joke too. I really wanted to marry him years ago but he refused me many times. He said he never wants to marry me. I accepted it will not happen. We don't even live together to start with. Now he is having financial issues and he basically has no place to live in soon. I guess he plans to move in with me and marry me maybe. But I'm not comfortable with timing and his motives. I guess he loves me but due to past rejections I really changed my mind about marriage. I like
  3. Almost all of them after some time, but that was not the reason for breakups. Maybe I'm just out of love? Maybe it's normal in LTR?
  4. I want to have sex but out of psychical need, not out of love. I used to express my love through sex. Now I don't anymore at all. That's a big change for me. I just don't like feeling that way, not being present completely. Something is just off. I know it's not a big issue, but it is for me. I can't fix it, if I don't know why.
  5. That's the thing. We do a lot of things together. I orgasm at least once every time we have sex. That's not the problem at all. I really don't know what is the cause.
  6. Please, that is from over a year and a half ago. We worked on our issues. We don't argue anymore. Like I said, everything is fine now for a long time. I do not resent him.
  7. I used to be able to really make love the way you see it on romantic movies. I used to look at my bf's eyes deeply and kiss him passionately and so on. I would really give him my all, all of myself. Over the last year or so, I can not do it anymore. I keep my eyes closed all the time. I'm not even comfortable with kissing anymore. Sex became more of a physical activity then something like soul connection and intimate love making. Everything is fine otherwise in my relationship, nothing has changed. I am content. My bf is not complaining about anything. I doubt he even noticed it. Bu
  8. My boyfriend and me are not living together. He sometimes hangs out at my place. I clean after him when he leaves mess after he goes away. I don't mind and it's not a lot of mess. But once he pointed out my dishes are not washed right. He even talked about that to our mutual friends when we were all hanging out. It turned out to be funny. But to me, I thought it was rude. I thought if it bothered him so much, he could have washed the dishes himself, since he doesn't clean anyhing in my place anyway. When I told him that, he didn't understand why I'm mad and said he didn't do nothin
  9. I'm not sure but I don't think so. I haven't notice anything on it or on other accounts, everything seems fine.
  10. No, nothing like that, it was just a phrase, I don't own him anything.
  11. No, my schedule routine isn't enough for anyone to know where I will be as it varies a lot and it's unpredictable. No, I blocked him on everything and we don't even have mutual friends and I don't leave traces on social media and I'm very careful with things like that.
  12. I've been in a abusive relationship for a very brief time. I figured the guy out pretty quickly. He indeed is a psychopath or has a narcissistic personality disorder. I broke up with him though he didn't really accept it and we had unfinished business between us and no closure on neither side. But I moved on. I'm great. I'm seeing other people. I just find it weird I keep seeing my ex accidentally in town. It happens almost once a month and it's a big city. We live far away from each other too. Some people I've known dozens times longer I've never seen like that in town. Is it coincidence
  13. I understand. And life can be hard. Friendship means different things to different people. Thank you for that.
  14. It's ok, thanks for answering. I understand some people won't change. But some would love to for the sake of a friendship too. Especially if they're interested why someone cut them off. I don't know B. or D. of course, but who knows. If it's something that is a bad habit or personality trait, it's worth changing it. If it's just something like you can't accept that person at all, that's a whole other story. It's not even true friendship.
  15. Yes, at work place. By her place, I meant her home where she lives. No, she has no kids and no elderly parents. She works a lot, but so much we can't see each other whole year?
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