jj21
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3 months and 1 day today: I do feel a lot better and sort of feel back to normal more or less. I still feel like there's something missing, suppose that's only natural though. She's made absolutely no effort to contact me and I thought she might have made some sort of contact. Before I blocked her on msn and we used to speak every 2 weeks. I know this is the NC challenege and people will tell me to keep her blocked. Recently I have felt like hearing from her I really don't think it will hurt anymore. What does everyone think?
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This is exactly how I feel! I haven't found it hard either really although I still think about her everyday. I thought she would have contacted me as well, I don't really get it. We are on really good terms and she wanted to stay friends. Before I blocked her on msn we would talk every two weeks or so, but now theres nothing... She may have met someone, I have no idea or shes just doing it because she doesn't want to hurt me, who knows!? I shouldn't really care i know, but it does make me curious.
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Exactly 2 months today! Can't believe its been that long, tbh I haven't found it that hard. Sometimes I feel like contacting her but I know I actually won't. Also I sometimes feel like i'm waiting for her to contact me, I don't know why but I guess I want to know how shes getting on.... It was always one way though, I was always contacting her I don't want it to be like that. If shes that bothered about being friends she would in be touch.
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Exactly one month of NC today! (nearly 5 months since split) Can't believe i've gone this long, its definitely got better! I've now blocked her on msn and facebook and hiden all updates from her friends and family - This has helped so much I recommend anyone doing it. I still think about her everyday and get down from time to time, but the feeling of hurt has gone.
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reached the 2 weeks mark! Feel much better I think I still miss her. Not sure if I miss having that feeling while you're with someone or miss her... Had a great night last night tho and was chatting to this girl, although not much happened I did feel better!
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Yeah I guess you're right, never thought of it that way! I know she still cares, I've just got to wait. I really want to leave it up to her to get back to me first because before we were still communicating friendly, but it was always from my side. I can't believe I've made it 12 days already!
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Day 11: Feeling up and down all the time!! Trying to make it until Christmas when I might see her... Got a feeling she will contact eventually. We're on good terms and are friends, see what happens!
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Day 2: It's so hard! I feel like contacting her but, I left it with her to get back to me regarding her move to uni. I can't stop thinking what she's doing!