today is my day 2 of NC. Broke up with my bf of 4 yrs about 2 weeks ago and kept in contact asking why and stuff. He was patient and I got my answer for why we broke up: his definition of love changed, he still felt something but it is not love. he wanted the special connection and believed that one would accept someone fully if one loves the other. I don't know if he is right or wrong. But i just always thought that relationship requires work and the special connection thingy, it just fades with time, especially now we are in a LDR. =/ This change of definition thing happened within less than 1 month?
yap i decided to start NC because i know i need to learn to stand on my own and find myself again. he didn't cheated on me, we didn't have any fight, he was smart, charming and everything and so i am having a hard time getting over it. it just wasn't meant to be...
