On to day 2. Told her off Thursday afternoon, so yesterday was the first full day of NC!!!!
I'm so proud of myself that, when she was telling me that her life is so confusing right now, I was able to tell her, "Well, you always HAD me by your side, that was something you could always count on. But now, you made your choice, have your new boyfriend, have your friends, you can go to them about things going on in your life. I want nothing to do with it."
After 3 years, and and the last 9 mo. living together, she developed GIGS for a co-worker that happens to be our neighbors.