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  1. Thanks for sharing this. Your experience feels very similar to mine. How long did it take to move on? What is the current and latest now that its been about a year?
  2. I have made such baseless allegations before but none of them were made in some overtly angry way. I think the amount of times (maybe 3 or tops 4 times) over the course of a year really upset her and her also being intoxicated she wanted to make it a much bigger thing... :(
  3. Thank you for the good advice. I think taking a good hard look at my self right now is going to be important. However it would be easy for someone reading this to downplay the good in my life and who I am. Im a working professional earning 250k+, provided a comfortable living, have been loyal, faithful and have been there for my gf, do sweet gestures for her all the time, rub her feet almost every night. All our friends think of what an amazing couple we are. I CLEARLY have stuff to work on, I just hope she allows me to work on it, while she remains my gf. I'm hoping this is salvagea
  4. I'm madly in love with my gf, but things got really bad, and here is how: 1. I accused her of being flirty with another guy during a thanksgiving party 2. She got mad, I physically tried to stop her from leaving by using my body (but not hitting her) - some outsider guy came running thinking i was hitting her but I was preventing her from driving drunk and might have been too physical and trying to prevent her from drunk driving 3. She decided to grab some things the next day and stay elsewhere for the week 4. I became extremely distraught and went on a drinking and xanax
  5. I finally did it. Anonymous82, if you recall i had been talking about breaking up. And I finally did it. Quick background: I'm 29, she is 30. We have been together for 2.5 years First time i broke up about 6 months ago, and we were broken up for maybe 10 days before we got back together, because i thought I had made a mistake. I said i wanted to get serious and moved in. Simultaneously I was figuring out my religious beliefs as I realized that after 27 years of following a faith, I was leaving it. So I had a lot on my plate in terms of identity issues. These past 6 months navigating th
  6. you are right. However, I think i might as well let her bday pass and then do it. She is already dreading turning 30. =/
  7. I haven't been able to do it yet I scared my self out of it. Also in my defense I had a family vacation planned and have been out of the country for the past two weeks. I was hoping traveling abroad would give me perspective as I wouldn't see her for two whole weeks. Well, I just saw her last night for the first time after the vacation, and I definitely felt less connected to her. Now her 30th birthday is literally in 7 days. I was thinking of not doing anything until her 30th bday had passed.... I just feel like i I keep prolonging the inevitable.
  8. I cant shake the feeling that this doesn't seem long term. I need to re-breakup but am so scared it might be a mistake. I have anxiety and feel so bad right now. I'm planning on doing it tomorrow, so she'll have the next 2 days to somewhat console her self as she doesn't work the next two days. I miss her so much already, it hurts. I hate this.
  9. I've discussed everything with her. She is wonderful. She says things like: "its okay, i want us to work, and if it doesn't I'm just happy to have had you" - ugh! so sweet... hard to break away from that kind of love. It has brought us closer maybe, but doesn't solve the underlying issues that im going through identity issues. I keep having grass is greener, i keep thinking maybe i'll have a better life with girl, better sex with this one, more financial freedom with that one, more social/community acceptance with this other one. It just seems like it goes against logic of an outsider why I
  10. I’ve just read most of the 51 pages on her and thought I’d post my story. But first, thank you all so much for sharing, you have no idea how much perspective this has given me. BEST. THREAD. EVER. I’m currently with my girlfriend, but we broke up 3 months ago, and got back together 2 months ago… and now I’m not sure how things are going. Lets begin the brief story: We met about 2.5 years ago. I’m 28, she is 29. We fell in love slowly, to me she was just going to be a casual fling at first, but she wanted more and showed me the type of love I hadn’t really seen before. I really started to
  11. its been about 20 days since we last spoke you changed your passwords so now i cant even spy on you It was i that left you, but I truly cared about you so much I'm sitting here contemplating If i should text you, but i know i shouldn't because from what I can tell your pain has started to subside. If i contacted you, it would be to make my self feel better, and it would make you feel worse. And to cause you even more pain is not what i want. God i wish I knew what you were doing, it was how i coped with your loss. I think i'm addicted, checking ur fb/email multiple times a day l
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