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  1. stargirl1980
    Day 5 Today was so easy. Yay.
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    Yay, Day 4. I think. Yesterday, I was chatting with Guy #2's friend about other, unrelated stuff. Before I left, I asked him if he knew a reason for why Guy #2 wasn't talking to me. (I didn't go into any detail about anything else- as far as I can tell, all the friend knows is that me and Guy #2 hung out one day, and haven't talked since.) He said he hadn't talked to him in a few weeks either- that Guy #2 just seemed to be blowing off people. (This kinda goes with what he and another girl both told me before- that he'll just drop out of touch with people. It's "him being him". Still...in my mind- if he won't call me, or answer me, then he doesn't have feelings for me. ) I mentioned this to someone else, and they said I was "playing games" by asking his friend that. Really?
  3. stargirl1980
    Day 2 not so bad, not so bad.
  4. stargirl1980
    Day 1 It's not so hard. I just have to get myself out of this funk I'm stuck in.
  5. stargirl1980
    Ok, I need to do NC for 2 different guys: 1. Is a guy I've been seeing on and off all year. Right now, we seem to be in a FWB relationship...but I don't really want that. So I think it's good that I stop contacting him. 2. Is a guy I slept with once back in October- we knew each other years ago, he said he considered me a friend, and he said he'd like to chill out again afterwards, but he hasn't contacted me or answered me since then. It's been like 8 weeks. I haven't been in full on cling or anything- I've txted maybe once a week or so, to see if he'd like to go to a movie, or get a drink. Nothing. His friend asked me 2 weeks ago if we'd talked, and I told him no. The whole thing confuses me and frustrates me. I txted him today, and said "I DO have feelings/attraction for you- I was hoping we could explore that as adults, before you left the state. (He's moving in 4 months) But I can understand if it's not mutual." No reply. So I feel even more like crap. No sense in ever contacting him again, either, since he's made it pretty clear he has no feelings for me, even as a friend. So Day 0 for both of them.
  6. stargirl1980
    Day 31. I still feel like it doesn't count, maybe, cuz of the txting accident. So maybe I should consider it Day 3?
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    Day 28 Well, actually, I'm not sure if it counts. I accidentally sent him a text message- I'd sent a mass text message to everyone listed under "friends" on my phone's contact list. Just asking if anyone was going to any Halloween parties. I really thought I'd deleted him off that grouping. I was shocked when my phone told me a delivery had been made to his number. I was actually afraid he'd write back to yell at me. But nothing. No idea how to really feel now. I've been hung up on someone else lately- I need to not contact him anymore either. No sense wasting energy on people who aren't giving back to you.
  8. stargirl1980
    Day 23 Getting there.
  9. stargirl1980
    Day 22 Yay, closer and closer to 30 days!
  10. stargirl1980
    Day 21. I'm counting down the days, just to prove to myself I can do it. But I feel weird. I'm pretty much over the guy in question. I'm actually more worried, because I'm kinda hung up on a new guy...maybe I should start a private NC for him too, since that seems to be going nowhere for me. I mean, I kinda like him- but I know he'll never have feelings for me.
  11. stargirl1980
    Day 20. Wow. I really can't believe I've made it this far.
  12. stargirl1980
    Day 19 Feeling much better.
  13. stargirl1980
    Day 18 Feeling kinda lousy. But it's not just because of him- having problems in other aspects of my social life.
  14. stargirl1980
    Day 17. I've been so distracted, I actually missed counting off 2 days. Good sign?
  15. stargirl1980
    Day 14. I barely miss him at all now. This is way easier than I thought it'd be.
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