Hey there SuperDave71 and all other posters on this forum!!
Obviously everyone - especially you, SuperDave, I need advice.
Instead of repeating my story to everyone, please see my very first forum novel for the info you need
My advice required is as follows ... I had had zilch, zip, nada contact with my ex for about a month after his last speech when a mutual "friend" decided that, because we were in the same circle of friends, we may need to get used to socializing, and thus organized a couple of dinners over a couple of weeks with our large group of mutual friends. Everything was fine, of course it hurt a bit, but otherwise non-awkward.
Now, I've just been overseas for a couple of weeks - and within a week of me leaving town, my Ex had added me on Facebook ... (I deleted him, his brother and his bestie from my FB & MySpace - as much to help myself as hinder them - my ex and his "people" never do ANYTHING without a distinct reason.)
So - my ex has added me on FB. I haven't touched it.
Then I get a message today on FB - now he's asking me if I'm ignoring him.
I'm not going to do anything - he's hurt me too much for that, and besides, I would have NO idea what to do OR say ...
Can someone tell me what this is about?