Hi everyone,
This is my first time posting this issue in a forum like this. Please bear with me as this is a hard thing for me.
My wife and I have been together for the past 8 years, and just got married about a year ago. We have a phenomenal relationship-- we're very, very close and are each other's best friend. I love her family, she loves mine, etc. It's a fantastic relationship, and I am very thankful for that. We're 110% devoted to each other.
For the first 2-3 years of dating, we were very sexual and had a very healthy, regular sex life (2-3 times/week). After that, it dropped off further and further to the point where it's about once (maybe twice) per month on average. We've had many discussions about this, and she really wants to try harder and feels bad for things being this way, but she doesn't follow through. She *rarely* even "services" me just to satify me when she's not in the mood for sex. I try cuddling to get her in the mood, am not pushy at all, will give shoulder/neck rubs when she's stressed, but she doesn't respond even though those are the things she says gets her in the mood.
She was slightly overweight for the past few years, but it never bothered me-- only her. But recently she lost 30 lbs and looks great, so I don't think that's it, but who knows.
This is tearing me up. Everything else is great, but the sex life is miserable, miserable, miserable.
Anyone else in this situation? Any advice???
Thanks in advance,
Guy