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nina2009

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  1. SugarRush, I actually loved the highlighted line, it stands out, bringing out the importance of another man... I also hear your feelings, because my heart is also committed to two people and it is very hard and in times so exhausting that the only thing I am dreaming about is a refuge, where I can hide from myself. But refuge does not exist and life goes on. Do two men know about each other?
  2. I loved your poem. Everybody has there goals. For him it is important to go through supporting this friend. There is no much you can do because he wants to help his friend: you can analyze it as a codependency, but really it is what he wants to do. It is like convincing someone who would love to have a great body to stop eating gallons of ice-cream and switch to broccoli and tomatoes. The person would understand how great that would be to eat vegetables, to feel light and beautiful and healthy, but then the person will go and buy ice-cream. The desire should come from within. May be your bf does not realize that you will not be with him if he chooses his friend, because you do not want to sacrifice your life resources on this guy with 6 kids. I would expect him to assume that you will be with him, because he seems to be idealistic and if he were in your shoes he would love to sacrifice himself. May be it would make sense to deliver to him your point of view the way he could understand. Because with all his idealism he would probably assume (and his "friend" will surely help him) that you are jut another * * * * * looking for comfort/services/profit and who has no idea what love is.
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