Hello everyone, this is my first real post, so bare with me. Me and my ex broke up about a week ago now. I'm still hurting inside, while whenever i see or talk to her now, she makes it feel like we were never together in the first place. That is the reason i am hurting so bad, how can you just up and forget about a person you spent so much time with. Last night before she left, she said that she does love me and she didn't just up and forgot me and that she still cares about me. I have had regrets on if i did this differently, or that differently. Something which i told her last night when we hung out some. She reassured me that it isnt all my fault this relationship didnt work, but like i said i cant help but feel this way. After she says stuff like that, it makes me feel alot better and i wish i could hear it more often, but once and a while i will get into a slump of depression and things get all sad again. In the end of all this, we decided to remain friends, and we hang out once and a while. To tell you the truth, it kinda helps me with the healing process. I thought i would be hurt by hanging out part, but i'm not. I'm just hurt because of the things that i have stated in the beginning of the post. I'm just hoping one day soon we can sit down and have a little conversation, about how i feel and how she feels and put everything out on the table. She always says to me let me know how you feel so i will do it this way. What is everyone's advice to this whole situation. Any kind of input would help. Thanks