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Somewhat related and ongoing story: Background Woman A (she broke up with me 4 months ago - still in love with her but she has severe commitment issues). No contact for the last 8 weeks after I tried to get her back the first few weeks. Woman B (she broke up with me early 2008 - have zero feelings for her now. mistake relationship) Today's Events Relationship with Woman A ended four months ago. Still heartbroken. I was aware that she had commitment issues but the break-up still took my by surprise. Read this thread this morning and started feeling better. I went for a walk at lunch and, while listening to songs on my iPod, said goodbye to her in my mind. Sad, but I was giving myself permission to move on and heal. Maybe limited contact in the future but for now, work on self. So, I go back to work but left my phone in the car. I go out and get it an hour later. There is a message from Woman B that I dated two years prior. I haven't heard from her in months and, while interested when we briefly dated, I have zero interest in her now. She broke it off with me for another guy and said some things that hurt me deeply and killed all of the attraction that I had for her. So, I went no contact because I really didn't care for her anymore. I see her with common friends once every few months and we exchange friendly hellos but I act otherwise disinterested (which I am Since early 2008, I have improved my life in almost every area so maybe she's noticed? Anyway, Woman B leaves a message asking if we could go out next week "as friends" and do something together and talk. Haha. What a weird day. I'm not interested in her so there will be no reconcilation story to post one day. But reading this thread and hearing things about you have to not care before they will come back. And then her calling today ... it gives me hope that anything is possible. Maybe one day I can come back here and post a reconciliaton story about me and Woman A.