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Can I join the challenge? My ex dumped me exactly four weeks ago today on February 5. I immediately treated her like she was dead. I deleted all emails, pictures, facebook friendships, etc., and I boxed up everything that she had given me, clothes, books, trinkets and knick-knacks, etc. I have not spoken with her in any way, nor has she spoken with me. Obviously, it has been hard, but I believe it has been worth the struggle. In either case, (1) whether we reconcile and reunite or (2) whether we stay apart forever, the exercise in respecting myself and improving myself will be beneficial. It will make me more attractive to her for scenario (1), and it will help me move on more easily in scenario (2). My case is slightly different than most, however, because (1) I want her back, but (2) we are long distance. Though, I am taking an internship in her city for six weeks this summer beginning July 1. My plan is to continue NC until about June 1, one month before I move to her city. At that time, June 1, I will tell her that I am moving there for six weeks for this internship. Then, while I am there, I will first try to take her on a friendly, short coffee-date. After that, I will try to take her on a fun, longer daytime date. Then I will try to take her on a dinner date. On each date I will try to evoke positive feelings of the early days of our relationship, while showing her that I am a different person now, free of the insecurities and lack of confidence that led to our break-up. I don't really expect any of you out there to read all of that. I realize that it is long. But, it makes me feel better to lay it out publicly instead of writing it to myself. Good luck to everyone else. I hope each of you either move on or reunite with the one you lost, whichever is best for you.