wolf22

Im on day 61, tried to force myself to go out on a few dates. looked at the clock the whollllllllle time. not ready at all. It felt like I was almost cheating, which is stupid

Dave, thank you for this post... i am 4 days out after she dumped me/ wanted break? i, like a fool, wrote her an email the next day. of course she replied that we should not talk and that "at some point we can talk again, but i just need some time. i think its a good idea if we dont talk right now". very short and emotionless. i wrote this because i am a ff and we had a bad situation, and we almost got in trouble. the first person i wanted to talk to was her. my heart was torn out by her and i literally almost died, so i needed her. huge mistake i know. i want to know if i need closure or not. i am of course hoping we can work things out. also like an idiot, we went to a counselor together a week before. so i drove out to the office to see if i could get a referral to talk with someone, on my own about things. as i was leaving, she was pulling in!!!! so maybe thats a new one for people out there. i thought of waiting til next mon and ask her if she wanted to talk next fri, 13 days after breakup. also her bday is the 26th so i dont know what to do in that situation either. all she said was she needed time, so after what you wrote i assume that means i should let her me the one to make contact first? thank you for a great article