Decaf08

my thoughts are made, and so are yours

and it also depends what both parties did in between the break up. ie. self improvement, moved on, dated others, whether mindgames were involved...etc....

It does happen, my uncle and my aunt have gotten through thick and thin, despite breaking up in the past. They got back together and continued on with the relationship for years. 2nd story: They were college sweethearts in the first year. Unfortunately distance played a role alonside with their hectic school schedules. Eventually they broke it off. 4 years later the met up, got back together, and have been married for 2 years! 3rd story: Close friends, they went out for close to a year before the girl ended it with the boyfriend. Boyfriend was confused for the most part, the girl was devastated as witnessed by me. A few months later, they meet up, get back together and are still going on strong for their technical 3 year anniversary! Getting back together really does happen. As long as both parties are mature about the break up, mind games aren't played, and most importantly a period of positive change and growth has occurred. Good luck to everyone!

60 days of NC, I'm healing well, getting dates, and my body is on its path to getting sexier. 8 pack abs here I come! (yes from time to time I miss her, but that's the same as missing your favourite pair of socks, the ice cream that fell to the ground, or that left turn you were supposed to make but missed thanks to some faulty directions given by a gorgeous date) All the best to you ENAers out there!

Day 2 of NC, I called her up on her Bday, according to how the interaction went, My friend says her answer clearly indicates she doesn't want anything to do with me ever again... Time to heal,

day 30 of no contact, 30 days since we've split. I'm losing hope of getting back together, everybody tells me to give up. I'm starting to see th point. Memories are just. They're better in the past.