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  1. metalawag
    Exactly. Being friends is giving her comfort and hurting you. Thats the way I see it. I couldnt be friend with an Ex unless I broke it off with them. You dont need more "friends"
  2. metalawag
    You are a pimp! Its tough but you know what to do. F* ck being friends
  3. metalawag
    Seriously man thank you. Its funny that a random stranger on a message board can be more kind on Christmas then someone you thought you were going to marry and have children with. I appreciate your advice and hope things work out for you, whether you decide to see her or not.
  4. metalawag
    Thanks Bro. Today just sucks but I will ask what I need to know as soon as I get a chance. It does help posting and reading in here. Seriously I would do some dumb sh it if I didnt have this board.
  5. metalawag
    Sounds like she is just mad at you. I know with booty calls they eventually will hit you up when they are in need of emotional or sexual support.
  6. metalawag
    Hey Z If you have a little time here is my story. You have a good head on your shoulders and I would appreciate any feedback you could provide
  7. metalawag
    Hes right man dont do it. When did you guys break up? How long have you had NC? It will be a big statement to her and I promise you she will wonder why she didnt hear from you or what you are doing. Let her wonder thats in your best interest not only in getting her back but in being strong for yourself.
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    zrehman if I dont hear back from her today should I go back to NC? I know I will be upset since she asked me out last week, went out with her, had a great time... Then she cant even say Merry Christmas or anything today. It seems so odd. She still has a bunch of my stuff I didnt get when I moved out and she was supposed to get it all ready for me months back but has kept putting it off. I know if it is over I do want that stuff back. Its not just little things I can let go. Should I bring that up in a week or so after not hearing from her? Am I getting ahead of myself? Damn last week I would have said there was a 95% chance we were getting back together now I feel the exact opposite. I dont know what happened.
  9. metalawag
    I read your thread a couple days back and didnt see the update. Sounds like she is def interested in something. I cant give good advice at the moment but if I were you I would be hopeful but at the same time have some fear of the pain all starting over. Like you said getting hurt again.
  10. metalawag
    as a mass text i meant
  11. metalawag
    Probably not a good idea but you could always mask it as a mask text. Send it to just her but say something like. "Merry Christmas everyone" Then you are sorta still sticking to NC but she might not reply and it may make you feel worse. Think how she would feel if shes weak today, thinking about you, and she doesnt here from you at all.
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    I didnt get a chance yet to ask her out to talk. I was planning on doing that today, assuming I talk to her. Maybe she will call later but not sure why at the moment Im feeling so needy for her. Yeah reading these threads does help. A little wine and some threads. I even smoked a cigg and I hate smoking. How are you doing with your NC today zrehman?
  13. metalawag
    Guys I need some help today. Im sorta freaking out today. I texted her "thinking of you, Merry Christmas" and didnt hear back. Back on Thanksgiving she texted me at 7am and woke me up. Today nothing. After just one week ago today we went out and had a great time. I feel like I did at the start of our relationship right now. Im hurting and not going to do anything crazy like contact her again today but man what can I do. I hate this feeling.
  14. metalawag
    Thanks again. That is very solid advice and what I needed to hear. I will keep you posted. I expect to talk or see her this weekend. I will ask her where she stands concerning "us". Wish me luck!
  15. metalawag
    Thanks zrehman Its weird that right after I sent that letter that she wanted to hangout and previously she was against it or never brought it up. I know I cant be strictly friends with her. Thats a no brainer for me. I agree I deserve to know one way or the other. Its been almost 3 months and we have been talking a lot lately due to her calling and messaging me. Next time she asks me out I want to bring it up. How should I go about that? Do I mention the past or do I ask her if we can talk about the future?
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