Your husband has to COMPLETELY QUIT DRINKING. At least outside of your presense. Look through the myriad of posts on infidelity websites and you will find countless references to alcohol. No excuse mind you, because alcohol does not make you do anything. It only reduce inhibitions so you are free to do that which you wanted to do anyways. In the future anytime he comes home after drinking you will wonder? Any time he goes out with his friends ( I hope he has gotten rid of the one who was with him that night) drinking you will wonder.
