The Right Time To Disclose Medical Issues? in Dating Advice Posted 12 hours ago On 10/23/2021 at 12:27 PM, Skip90 said: So in other words if I choose to ruin my health then it's my business as long as I don't get into a serious relationship? in other words, Its sad that you don't want to stop ruining your health for yourself - to be able to have mobility, your vision, etc, as long as you can so that you can do everything you want to do until the day you die hopefully in very old age. I had a relative who died of it -- their vision started to go, they lost their foot and part of their leg due to diabetes in stages and also had episodes of diabetic amnesia before all that, too. Its nasty. you don't want it. you don't need to become a body builder or be vegan to be healthier. It takes just a few small changes.