i'm taking the total nc challenge. i haven't spoken to my ex since early in the week (and i'm not counting days any more!).... but now i'm totally serious about it. i finally REALLY did it... he's blocked from fb, every im service, and i deleted him from my phone. before, when i did the nc, i peeked at his online stuff. i'm done with that, though. i need to get over it for me and watching his messages just makes me feel worse. every moment he isn't online, i imagined him partying and having sex with super models. every moment he was online, i hated him for not bothering to talk to me. too much drama when we didn't even have contact!
superdave... this one's for me, but dedicated to you (because it's your idea).
from this moment forward, i will have no contact with my ex, not even virtual peeking.
thank you to all of you faceless friends who have listened to my most personal and intense feelings at a time when i felt the lowest. your advice, your stories, your wisdom, and your concern have helped me more than you know.