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ajay

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  1. I've known this girl for almost a year now but things about us are not clear until now. The thing is that she has a boyfriend for also a year now. I tried to court her before but to no avail because she preferred to keep his boyfriend. We decided to be just friends, yes we became really close, she cuts class just to chat and things like that, I know that she likes me. But I have decided to keep distance from her for almost 6 months, It still hurts me knowing she still has a boyfriend. Just when I thought that everything is back to normal and I can finally get over her...Our paths crossed again, we became much more closer this time. When I was in the hospital, she would always be the one calling me on my celphone just to find out how Im doing. After I got well, she told me she is having terrible fights with her boyfriend and it was not the first time that they had this terrible kind of fight. She told me that she doesn't know what she's going to do next and evertime she makes a decision about it, she always failed. I think i know what she's saying...She had thoughts of breaking up with him, but never really did it, I guess there are just some girls who'd prefer to keep their current relationship than enter a new one. But yesterday in school, It so happened that the classes were cutted off, we talked almost the whole day and she invited me to watch a play together, after watching, we spent the rest of the night just outside her dormitory, I thanked her for the concern when I was confined, I was putting my arms all over her shoulders, We held hands(i kissed her hands too with her other hand touching softly my face)just before I went home. The problem is I am falling in love again with the girl who broke my heart a couple of months ago, Im really confused weather whatever it is that I'm going to do next, I have no Idea whatever decision she had made about breaking up with him, I didnt want to ask her this because I feel awkward and sound like i would want to take advantage.
  2. Shma, Maybe it's because their family is close friends with yours, that's why she is being awkward. What I have to say is short in simple so you better pay attention. Best thing to do is find out what she is interested in. Ask her friends or even her parents if your'e deemed to be so close to them. It is finding her interests that will break the barrier. You should try to learn and appreciate those things that you will find out. Trust me coming up to her and popping such words that will get her attention will get her hooked. By making those kind of stuff, your starting to make a connection with her. After you develop a good raport she will be the one to tell you more about herself.
  3. I met this really beautiful girl 5 months ago, just when i thought that things are starting to get good, I started to tell her how i feel for her. To my surprise she told me that she had a boyfriend, I was so shocked because she never told me about that thing. She said that i should try to forget her, she doesn't want to hurt my feelings because she said that I was so nice to her. It was really hard but I can't simply forget her. I decided instead to become her friend, I did... In fact we hit it really good. I've never been so close with a girl before. But things for me starts getting complicated, when Im with her i feel like im the happiest man on earth, when we part I feel like the world has turned its back against me. I don't really understand it why she couldn't leave her boyfriend and choose me instead...I know in the back of my head that there is some part of her that wants to be with me because I can tell just by looking at her face that she is happy when we are together, she even cuts classes just to have a chat with me. At this point I don't really get it, I love her more than any person and Im willing to make sacrifices for her, but Im afraid though that If I admit my feelings for her again, I might loose the friendship that somehow got me balanced. She and her boyfriend are now going strong for 9 months and Im losing hope. It's just 2 years more and she's out to graduate in college. Please anyone help me, Im totally clueless on what is in store for me.
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